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wat do i do about a friend i have that hurts my feelings all the time?

how do i tell her?

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Emory offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Try to act all casual and stuff, and slowly turn yourself from them (but not in a really obvious or mean way, just a passive way) when they get annoyed, tell them how you feel. If your really sure of yourself, just go up to them and tell them you feel they are treating you meanly. I also reccommend you tell them as soon as you can, as you will get more and more hurt until you cannot forgive them.

Hope this helps,

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I had family that used to call names and hurt my feelings, what I did helped me.

I said stop or I’ll stay away from you.

When they hurt me I stayed away and in time the learned to shut up.

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yay_bubbles offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Cedar Falls, IA, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (11 minutes after post)

that souns like good advice guys. thank you. i will try it.

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chrisguzmanfoun offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 day after post)

MAKE THEM AWARE… most people do it uncounciusly… www.chrisguzman.org

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
CA | 2 years, 10 months ago (3 days, 11 hours after post)

Find a new friend. People make other people feel bad because they don’t like themselves. If it is having a negative effect on you, just stay away.

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karibasi offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (4 days, 7 hours after post)

I’m foreign and my friends always joke around with me about it. Now when I first got to know them they hit certain points which ticked me off. All I had to do was tell them “Hey guys don’t say that..etc” and they understood. Friends who really are your good friends will understand and will always respect what you say.

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glitzpeep offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 21 hours after post)

I have a friend like that, 2. We’re always fighting. Tell them how you feel, face2face, and they’ll probably realize “oh, i wasn’t bein very nice to____”.
PLZ use face2face, not any other method, that could be VERY hurtful.

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longtohelp offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 week after post)

You can freak her out by saying dont hate me coz ur not me.

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penguin offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

just say it like it is. if that person is really getting on yr nerves u should telol em’. as u said, tat person is yr friend rite! he/she should understand. well, have a nice day! *-*

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surviver offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Monterrey, 19, MX | 2 years, 6 months ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

Walk away from her. There are many many people you can make friends with. You can make friends anywhere!.. parties, restaurants, even on airplanes!
If this friend of yours asks you why you don’t look for her anymore, tell her why. If she apologizes, then keep that friendship. It’s like a plate, you have your food in there but, if there is something that is rotten, you won’t eat it won’t you? You throw it away!! Well, its the same thing with personal relationships; if it is trash, then it goes to the trash can!
Good luck!

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