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ive been with my g/f for like 1 year and 4 months,

weve been recently arguing and when i say dat its bad, i sometimes now think i should finnish it, were not going anywhere and not being shady but she/we have issues but hers are more worse. i need advise because its getting to hard and i dont think were going anywere.
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Qzzzz offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

If you cannot get along now, would probably be best to find a new relationship. This could save you lots of grief down the road.

Good luck!

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quizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 hours, 7 minutes after post)

get through hell to go to heaven. the answer is in itself.

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Cajun offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Dolores Hidalgo, 11, MX | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 hours, 19 minutes after post)

go with ur gut which is clear that u should leave

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wtfinger offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 1 year, 9 months ago (14 hours, 23 minutes after post)

First, you need to get an understanding yourself. What are your issues? You need to figure out whether you want this relationship. If you do, then you need to understand eachother’s issues. It takes two to tango and if she no longer wants you, then you should consider moving on.

bill

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Kaydee offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

ok well if you think its not going to work you should dump her and go on and theres this saying that ive heard called theres more fish in the sea and i believe thats true because if god thought you were good with her then i dont think you guys would be fightin as much as you do so that might not be the right girl for you theres probably some one else out there for you

kayla

ps. i hope you listen and move on because i dont think anyone should go through that

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www.bombodai offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 days, 4 hours after post)

you know i’m in a similar situation with my fella of 5 months. we argue, alot, but as we get to know each other, we are choosing less and less to push those buttons, it’s about knowing when something can slide, and if it can, biting your tounge and trying to have some fun togeather instead.
It’s also about reailising that you two different people, sha can never be exactly what you want and vica versa, but ask your self if she is good to you, helps you grow, challenges you in a good way and makes you feel free to be who you are.
Darn we argued something bad, more than with anyone before, but maybe because i feel with him i’m in ot for the long shot, so want to get things straight form the start
anyhow, just be true to you.

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godblessings offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 week after post)

talk with her maybe she needs help

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lokiwraith offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

life is harder relationships are harder my friend either you both pull your weight or you dont its going to be a fight thats just the way it is if you dont want to be with her then stop wasting each others time and tell her otherwise quit crying grow up be the man in the relationship and deal with it if you feel this is to difficult for you then you should be in this relationship just be honest with her thats all you can do

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