Oh boy, you confuse me!
I started working for a senior mens soccer team as the massage therapist about 4 months ago. And I have a crush on one of the boys (who is a year younger than me). One training session he finished up early and asked me to help him fill the ice bath, so as my job, i did it. As i bent down to pick up the ice bag, i saw him checking me out, and he smiled when he realised i caught him. The next night on facebook and we were chatting for quite a while. We were flirting back and forth. And got onto the topic of massage and he asked when i was gonna give him one, so i played along, and said i better be getting a massage too! He then said, he’d definately give me one. So we were flirting back and forth and he was telling me how he’d have trouble giving me a massage. I asked why, and he said because he wouldn’t be able to control himself massaging me, that he would want it to turn sexual. So i laughed and played along. He told me how when he watched me filling the ice bath (when we were alone in the bathroom together) that he was gonna make a move, but didn’t think i would be keen and was worried that someone would walk in on us.
The next training session he completely ignored me, he didn’t even acknowledge that i was there. So, i thought that was a little strange. But the next 2 trainings he did the same, until he was told my my boss to come and get a sports rub from me, because his injured groin/quads were playing up again. So he was forced to come see me. He then started chatting like he used to (the ‘before-the-massage-turned-more’ convo. And ever since then he chats to me normally again. But he is never online anymore to chat. So i only talk to him at trainings now when everyone is around.
He said he would make a move, but then went to the extreme and stopped talking to me… I don’t get why he started ignoring me. At first i thought, maybe he was just talking sh*t on facebook chat to me, but then thought maybe he is shy in person. But i really don’t know now. Because that was the one and only conversation we’ve had like that..
So i was just wondering what you guys thought of this? Do you think he was actually keen?? Or maybe just saying it because he knew i wanted to hear it?
I don’t know. HELP please! :)
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