IDEA help: ok, so i’ve been dating my b/f for over 2 years, he recently broke up with me. - Help.com

Jealousy rarely works. Try keeping the relationship at a “friends” level; you may find that you’re better friends that boy/girlfriends.

As a boyfriend, if he’s not willing to tell you why he’s not happy with the relationship, he isn’t worth having around. It’s not easy for us guys to open up about stuff like that, but, the way I’ve been taught, if you really love someone, you do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you can to make it work, and if that means spilling your guts about why you aren’t happy with the relationship, then do it. It actually makes one less of a man to not speak to his S/O.

you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel

I guess you’ll just have to let it be. His loss.

alright simple truth is he probably got sick of carrying the relationship its a 50 50 thing and if you dont do your share eventually the one thats carrying the team is going to burn out he probably got sick of putting up with all the bs he might still love you but theres a limit to how much one person can take if you really want him back then prove it to him go get him show him that you want to be with him if he really loves you he’ll forgive you if not move on with your life your still young just learn from this and improve yourself

well the down side to emails and letters is he might not be getting them or more likely hes not even reading them another possibility im just throwing this out there so dont get worried but there might be some one else consider that possiblility as well dont stalk him call him leave a voice mail tell him how you feel about him but it would be more helpful if we i knew what kind of mistake you were reffering to like for instance my ex didnt something then lied about it and that caused alot of mistrust in the relationship wich eventually resulted in us breaking up so um yeah??

how did you make him feel left out or not loved? tell him you didnt know that you were making him feel like that and if he would of said something you would of worked really hard to make him feel wanted and loved and all that ask him to let you prove urself to him thats all you really can do other than that if it doesnt work you should just let him live his life and you should move on with yours its only fair and if he really loves you and you really love him ya’ll will get together again.. its like that saying “if you love somebody you should set them free”

give it some time

i really dont know how to help you i mean i kinda of had the same thing going on with my ex only im sure now that i just wasted my time with her and i was most likely right about her the only advice that i can give is if he loved you atleast half as much as i loved my ex then he wont just give up that easily keep talking to him if you really want him then show him be there for him and if he still doesnt want anything to do with you then fine theres plenty of other guys out there thats kinda of what im dealing with right now although i really dont want any other girl im going to have to except that shes gone and i have to move on i now its hard but you might want to start to consider this as an alternative and im sorry its probably not going to get an easier but thats life if you need someone to talk to let me now ill send you my email address or something i hope you guys can work this out if not then you can talk to me if you like good luck

good for you thats the kind of attitude you need be strong youll find someone else hopefully someone better this time but if not it will only make you stronger and wiser