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hi i have more than 1 problem like most ppl well to be honest at the min my life is falling apart

i have just lost my job i have split with my long term girlfriend and i have been asked to leave my house by my mum and step dad i just dont no what to do i have to leave my house in a week

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theMajor offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

As i see it, your parents are jerks. They see you have no job and at the time are unable to support ur self financially. What a good parent would do is help you out until u can at least find a job again.
At this point, you can rely on one of ur friends to provide you with a place to stay, until u can get a job again, and are able to support living in ur own home. You should really try to find a job as soon as possible though.

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jmal offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Wow, When S#@% hits the fan it really hits! Best thing to do now is find a close friend or speak to your parents on a level that they didn’t even no you could go to and let them know your situation and that you would like to stay for a few weeks until you can find a job and have the finances to pay rent. I’m sure they will be open if you approach it in a adult manner.

I personally can’t agree with themajor. He really doesn’t know you or your parents and you might be the biggest jerk around. And on the other hand your parents might be. We don’t know that for now, so do your best to be a man and talk to them like an adult.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Well first off legally you have rights they have to give you a 30 day notice. So do the right thing and look for a job save and find a room to rent or something else .Let them know you will be out in thirty days and don’t bug them ,buy your own food and be productive .They might ask you to stay. But don’t be a leach.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (32 minutes after post)

I agree you should go and talk to your parents and explain your situation right now. May I ask why they asked you to move out? You’re going to have to find a job. Perhaps registering with a temp agency while you job hunt for a job will help tide you over and help you save money for a deposit/rent on a place. Like nora_radfor said, buy your own food & things or else give them some money to help pay for your stay there.

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