girlfriend help: What do I do when I found out my girlfriend is talking to this ex who she has not met him but they have known each other. - Help.com

no there os 3000 miles apart just talk let it go

1) You go looking to stir up ****, and you’ll find something. I was horrible for this in my past relationship, and it was a big reason why it failed. Sometimes you gotta just let **** be.

2) at the same time, it’s not cool for her to be saying that to anyone but you. I’d talk to her about it.

Confront her about it. Calmly.

She is emotionally cheating on you.. so you have nothing to lose. You’re better off with someone who wants to be with you and ONLY you.

don’t rush into conclusions…
she just might be toying with him.
if you make a big deal out of it, it would become a big deal.
not worth mentioning.

but that might be a sign for you to give her more attention :)
she is with YOU after all
who cares about some dude that w*** off in loneliness 3000000000 miles away.

Obviously, you shouldn’t have violated her privacy by snooping but she is no better as she is violating your trust and the relationship that you share talking to her ex like that. You should definitely talk to her about it

if you do decide to confront her, don’t do that as blaming her,
rather try doing that as pitting the other dude.
like, while sitting calmly somewhere after they text or something:
“that ex of your didn’t got over you yet, huh?” pitting intonation>
… probably
“does he have a chance?” suggestive tempting teasing look>
… smile> not a chance
kiss
end of story.

“She is emotionally cheating on you.. so you have nothing to lose. You’re better off with someone who wants to be with you and ONLY you.”

I agree. She is bonding with this person, she is secretive about it, and she is cheating on you already in her mind. It is all considered cheating. Tell her you love her that much that you give her back her freedom so she could do whatever she wants. As hard as it may be. Move on bro. She is not worth it.

Hahaha. Wow.

lol?