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i have 4 kids and can not find work.

i have served time in prison on an assault charge. all my leagal obligations or done with. i have been back in illinois since august 06 and cant seem to find a job. my mom has let me stay with her and use her car to look for work. by then 29th of this month if i am not working i have to leave my moms house. if anyone can help me out with a car and some money i will pay it all back when i get on my feet. as far as money goes i owe alot of back support so i wont asked to have that paid for me. what i will ask for is about 1500 so i can purchase detail equipment so i can detail vehicles and make money to pay my support and everything else. thank you for any and all help. i am desperate

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

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desperate father offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (21 minutes after post)

do you know if those sites actually work? i have no money to invest. not even $1.00. i am completely broke.

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nmak300 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
GB | 2 years, 10 months ago (35 minutes after post)

I mean is there some offical from your prison like a probabtion officer or maybe a charity or help centre who can help you back into employment, or maybe like a local factory where skills are not really required, at least its something temporary until you can get your feet back on.

Please more information can really help.

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IamMyKidsMom offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (54 minutes after post)

You made it sound as if your kids were with you when you said ” i have 4 kids and can not find work”, kinda gave off a false pretense until you read further and realize your (supposed to be) paying support.

You have had August, September, October, November, December and January (till the 29th) to find work right? That is six months. I find it hard to believe that you cannot get work in that amount of time if you were pounding the pavement everyday ~ I am not going to candy coat this, but working with Parole and Probabtion, I see predatory sex offenders with a MUCH worse criminal record than yours find work within a month of release ~ even if it is to flip burgers or make taco’s. Work with your parole officer to help you get a job–that is what they are there for. I am not trying to sound mean or anything, but I think six months is ample time to allow you free use of a car and place to stay in order to find work, and if I were your mom, I would probably give you the boot too.

Try the unemployment office? Temporary day labor?

Here are sites there in Illinois to find jobs:

http://www.job-hunt.org/jobs/illinois…
http://www.iljobs.com/
http://jobs.careerbuilder.com/jobseek…
http://www.employmentguide.com/EG/bro…
http://hotjobs.yahoo.com/jobs/IL/

It’s my opinion that if you don’t have a job after six months, you are not trying hard enough, sorry for sounding so brash, but maybe you need to hear it spelled out this way…?

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

Good job Mom! I also thought the same. Will be interesting to see how he approaches your comments.

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (3 hours, 25 minutes after post)

If you want to start a car detailing business you might want to look into getting a small business loan. Here are some links to info on the possibilities…
http://www.businessnation.com/library…
http://usgovinfo.about.com/library/we…
http://www.commerce.state.il.us/dceo/…
http://www.gaebler.com/debt-financing…

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cc_offer2 offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (2 years after post)

I make enough money to pay all the bills with these sites. For me, it was so difficult getting started. Where do you start making money on line? There were so many options.

It took a lot of looking and a lot of trial and error, but I have found several really great sites. And all these sites are free to join. Also, I have proof that these sites pay like pics of checks I have been paid, a 1099 Tax form, etc.

http://proof-of-payment.blogspot.com/

One thing I have learned: Never join a work at home program or opportunity that wants you to pay up front. If they were making that much money, they wouldn’t need to charge you.

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