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thanks… :) i will try it and see if it helps

Anonymous wrote:
Don’t you do things with people that you love, and love you too? Don’t you like to do anything at all by yourself?

i like to sometimes…but i really love being around people.

kharkirat9 wrote:
do u live alone or with ur family ?

i live with my mom, and my dad on weekends. it has less to do with that and more to do with the fact that my mom doesn’t really like to take us places unless it’s on her terms…so other than my bike i don’t really get out much. i don’t get invited to a lot of places either

Time Traveller wrote:
I eat soup that helps me kick that feeling. A lot of very hot soup.

really? what kind? anything that would help…

kharkirat9 wrote:
so how old r u…..can’t u go out with ur friends?

i’m sixteen. i can’t drive anywhere because i’ve failed my permit test twice and my mom doesn’t take me anywhere because she doesn’t like to drive unless it’s on her terms.

Anonymous wrote:
My Friend, I have seen it written here, and so it must be true, that this site is addictive. And you will soon enjoy your time alone to chat with all your new friends here.

if only :) my mom keeps the internet under her thumb. i can only get on when she says, and that’s usually rarely.

Time Traveller wrote:
Maybe have a yardsale try to raise some money and then get one of those mini laptops and then you could have the internet, also maybe drive a bike to get places without your mom helping.

i do take my bike everywhere. and i have a laptop

Anonymous wrote:
Just point out to your mother that this site is all public. No private exchanges at all between the users, unless they share email addresses.

it’s more complicated than that. like sometimes being on my Facebook and stuff makes me feel even worse. that’s why i came here…i don’t feel quite so awful here

Angie :) wrote:
Why do they make you feel that way?
what makes this site different?

it’s people from everywhere…not just local. it makes the world feel smaller and not as scary or big

Angie :) wrote:
do you feel like your intimidated in some way when you go on facebook?

i guess in a way…because i have friends but sometimes i feel like they don’t really want to talk to me or that i’m bothering them if i talk to them

Angie :) wrote:
So you feel like being here your not being judged, I know what you mean kiddo
Ive spoken to a lot of people who have raised concerns about fb due to critism &intimidation.
I dont have it myself, I got shut a while ago.

Have you asked your mum to go places with you?

not really…i mean i guess i could try it but my mom and i aren’t very close so that might be difficult for the both of us

Angie :) wrote:
you know you should ask&see what her answer is, she just may surprise you
also she way be waiting for something like this :)

Im a parent myself&although I cant read minds I do try to alleviate their boredom
only if they let me tho.
I think its time you&your mum had some ME time :)

thanks :) i’ll see if it helps

:) thank you so much

a bit! it’s definitely not so bad…there are some other issues i’m dealing with but that particular one has gotten a little bit better :)

Anonymous wrote:
Glad to hear you’re doing better, friend. Have fun for the summer :)

thank you! :)

Anonymous wrote:
I’m reading your post i worry about everything right now.

another one of the issues i’m dealing with unfortunately. :/ hopefully i don’t sound too needy