Person help: hello, i am 14 years old and i’m a cutter.

cutedpllface_m9

hello, i am 14 years old and i’m a cutter.

i cut my wrists. i think i dont need help :( but i wanna talk to someone but i have a problem im not a person that can open up to ppl. so is it better for me to talk to my friends or a stranger? to help me. and how do i do it without them freaking out or something or should i shut up ? :S please help me. tnx

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doIreallyhavet #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 minute after post)

Do you do hair? I look a bit like Shaggy at the moment and could do with a trim?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

i would know where too start really a lot people go thourogh this have asked to talk to someone i kow this sounds really wired but you just need that person that you can trust onece you find the person you be fine

Help me with: i am very happy with my boyfriend but i am just looking for more meaning i love spending time with him but he not like he

bubbly_genius15 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

thats not funny! I can understand what u r going thru.
talk to me.

Help me with: I have this guy that I’ve been dating on-and-off for the past 3 years.

doIreallyhavet #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Come on. There’s no need to be like that. Everyone’s got problems in their life. Chopping your hands off certainly won’t help. I was just trying to lighten the mood.

Look, what you’re doing is dumb. It serves no purpose but to mess you up, and cause a right mess on the carpet. Speak to someone. What’s really upsetting you?

Get band aid first btw.

:-)

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IamMyKidsMom 18 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Cutedpllface_m9,
Disregard what -doireallyhavet- said. They are not being serious and should find another website to ‘play’ on if they are going to talk to others like that.

doIreallyhavet #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (19 minutes after post)

My Good God! Whats going on with the world? This is surely the reason why everyone is in such a mess. Pragmatism is dying a slow death.

Some poor girl is sitting in her bedroom and slowly lacerating her wrists. What better way is there to solve the issue than making it completey plain that what is going on is utterly barmy?

My 2 cents worth
1. Don’t chop yourself up (it hurts)
2. Try to get to the bottom of why you’re feeling sh**tty
3. Be pragmatic - trat the cause not the symptoms
4. Throw away any razor blades, stanley knives etc.

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IamMyKidsMom 18 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

The reason I said that was because it looked as though you were making light of the fact this child has a problem with cutting. It is my opinion that people should not be made fun of in situations such as these. If they really are cutters, it could cause them to cut more and I would not want to be reason they did. That was why I said what I did to you. No personal attack on you as a person. Being pragmatic as you say is a good rule to live by, you just have to know when to use it and since we don�t know the state of mind this child is in, I didn�t think your hair cutting comment or that they should get a band aid first, was very funny. No disrespect though, just my opinion. Really.

With that said, they ‘chop themselves up” BECAUSE it hurts. The pain releases endorphins which gives them a high which is extremely habitual. I definitely agree with the bullets listed above though. You may want to rid any temptation and then seek professional help for your issues as to why you feel you must cut. If you are really feeling like you’re going to cut, call someone instead. Someone who knows about what you do. They can be your life savers in situations such as those.
Take care kiddo

CHEESEBUM #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

I had a friend that cutted before .. she told me about it .. and it realy helped her. The first step would be to tell someone you really trust and tell them whats wrong .. then they will want to try and help you get threw this. No one deserves to be going threw the pain of depression along. Thats why we have friends:)

feel better, be happy, live and love life.

caio

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IamMyKidsMom 18 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Nice post Cheesbum. Good advice too.

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