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ok im my problem is im shy and nervous and its really effecting my life.

i got loads of friends but one on one situations are awkward. i think when people are with me they find it awkward because i get nervous and shy. i have been called an “emotionless b*****d” and “autistic” but im not lol. also i have only had one gf and our relationship was mostly over tx and msn lol not good. i dont mean to sound like a pr**k but i would say im very gd looking and girls say this too me but i just s**t myself lol. i cant relax with people. the only person i really get on with is my little brother i sing and am loud with him ive tried picturin evry1 bein my little bro but it doesnt work.

i wish i could be like i am when im drunk, i no tht sounds sad, but when im drunk im out going and i love it. i want to be more out going and relaxed because a the moment when ppl talk to me i just mumble and i dont seem to have any expressions but i do inside i just want to “come out of my shell”

also im quite happy atm but thats only becaus im optimistic. if i thought about all the things i should be sad about i would be extremely sad lol

i would really appriciate some help thanks xxxxxx

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ok im my problem is im shy and nervous and its really effecting my life. i got loads of friends but one on one situations are awkward. i think when people are with me they find it awkward because i get nervous and shy. i have been called an “emotionless b*****d” and “autistic” but im not lol. also i have only had one gf and our relationship was mostly over tx and msn lol not good. i dont mean to sound like a pr**k but i would say im very gd looking and girls say this too me but i just s**t myself lol. i cant relax with people. the only person i really get on with is my little brother i sing and am loud with him ive tried picturin evry1 bein my little bro but it doesnt work.

i wish i could be like i am when im drunk, i no tht sounds sad, but when im drunk im out going and i love it. i want to be more out going and relaxed because a the moment when ppl talk to me i just mumble and i dont seem to have any expressions but i do inside i just want to “come out of my shell”

i would really appriciate some help thanks xxxxxx

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

hey! well first of all, i want to know what makes you so shy and nervous? they’re only people just like yourself and you shouldn’t be afraid of nothing. i kind of used to be like that, but i realized that i couldn’t act like that for the rest of my life. so, i decided to change that. i started fresh the next week and started making little conversations with people in my class by asking easy questions like “So do you have a job?” or “What other classes are you taking?” Stuff like that and soon i was talking to everyone about everything. Well i hope i helped you out a little bit and if not i am truly sorry. If nothing works, then i think you should go to a phsycologist. Good luck!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

phsycologists abit far i think because i wud never ask my mum and dad and i think there no help. i no its all in my head. im quite smart so not tryin to sound aragont i no what s**t a physcatrist would come out with
you got to like yourself
stop caring what others think
all that bo****s

ur help was good thanks alot :) yer i need to make small talk

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