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I need help because I love my boyfriend and my ex loves me too…

..what to do?

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kilroy offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (5 minutes after post)

be true to your self no one else

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rst122 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (13 minutes after post)

Love what you love mate. the ex will get over it.

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theres.no.place.like offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (19 minutes after post)

I agree with kilroy.be true to yourself. and if your ex really loves you then they’ll accept your decision.

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Help me with: my friend and I are feuding.
rst122 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (21 minutes after post)

BUT HE DOESNT REALLY LOVE YOU…. he loves himself. that bastard. the only way to succeed in ending his selfishness is to feed him lots and lots of cat food. LOTS AND LOTS of cat food. believe me. none of that cheap stuff though. make sure you get some fancy cat.

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RRJR offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (28 minutes after post)

How do you know your ex really loves you? You must still have a thing for him or you wouldn’t care either way. And if you still have a thing for him then why are you with this other guy? It’s not fair to him, unless he’s a player or something. Why did you two break up in the first place? You need to really decide what you want. It’s not good to not be true to yourself. Put yourself in their shoes? How would you like it if the guy you’re with right now still had a thing for his ex who in turn may have a thing for him and he’s keeping all this info from you? I’m sure if you found out you would want something done about it and may even lose it on him for not being faithful with his thoughts and heart.

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Help me with: I have a friend who is married and he wants to name their baby who is due any day now after a past girlfriends name.
rst122 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (35 minutes after post)

cat food.

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RRJR offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (39 minutes after post)

rst122 do you know this guy she thinks still loves her? Seems like you do. I’m just curious.

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Help me with: I have a friend who is married and he wants to name their baby who is due any day now after a past girlfriends name.
rst122 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (40 minutes after post)

also, tell your ex you’re prego…. just sayin

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rst122 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (43 minutes after post)

i think he loves himself so much that he’s not willing to move on for her advatage.

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rst122 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (44 minutes after post)

OH SORRY I MISREAD. **** my eyes mate. naw i don’t know him. unless his name is bill. then i might.

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rst122 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (46 minutes after post)

Im ausie for the day maties hahahaha aaaaaaaaaaaaaarg. smores chewy bars anyone?

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