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lately i have been seeing this guy, i havent spoken

to him in just over 2 days and in that time he hasnt been outta my head and i have noticed that i really like him, we were spose to meet up a couple of nights ago but he texted me and told me he was busy and would meet up with me another night.i havent had a text since.
what should i do, i dont wanna text him cause i will feel as though i will annoy him, should i just wait for him to text or what…..?????

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motionman22 offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (7 minutes after post)

Just wait, give it a day or if you feel patient two. He may be busy for a legitimate reason so dont worry be cool and if he likes u as much as u think u like him he will text you.

Take care.

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Wild Rose offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (14 minutes after post)

You can text him just asking that you hope he’s ok, because you didn’t hear from him anymore. Thats being concerned, not pushy

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lilgreek offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (16 minutes after post)

yeah i guess, i just dont want him to get annoyed even though he said im not annoying him when i do.

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L.J.S. offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (17 minutes after post)

i’d call him, person can’t sit around waiting for mr. right to make up his mind. give him a day, max, then i’d call. texting is a teenage thing, adults make a phone call

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Wild Rose offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (20 minutes after post)

lilgreek wrote:
yeah i guess, i just dont want him to get annoyed even though he said im not annoying him when i do.

See…men are always straight. So if he said so, then just do so. Besides you don’t even know how he’s thinking. Maybe he’s also shy to call you or text you. Maybe he’s sick, maybe something at work, or something with his family?

Do it, you have nothing to lose by being cancerned

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Wild Rose offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (22 minutes after post)

lexa_yothe wrote:
i’d call him, person can’t sit around waiting for mr. right to make up his mind. give him a day, max, then i’d call. texting is a teenage thing, adults make a phone call

Why would it be a teenage thing? I would text him then ask him if you can call. You never know if he’s at work or busy or with friends or whatever. i call this being polite

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An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

Wild Rose wrote:

lexa_yothe wrote:
i’d call him, person can’t sit around waiting for mr. right to make up his mind. give him a day, max, then i’d call. texting is a teenage thing, adults make a phone call

Why would it be a teenage thing? I would text him then ask him if you can call. You never know if he’s at work or busy or with friends or whatever. i call this being polite

wow. i’m not the one with the problem, maybe we should stick to the issue at hand

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Wild Rose offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (4 hours, 30 minutes after post)

lexa_yothe wrote:

Wild Rose wrote:
lexa_yothe wrote:
i’d call him, person can’t sit around waiting for mr. right to make up his mind. give him a day, max, then i’d call. texting is a teenage thing, adults make a phone call

Why would it be a teenage thing? I would text him then ask him if you can call. You never know if he’s at work or busy or with friends or whatever. i call this being polite

wow. i’m not the one with the problem, maybe we should stick to the issue at hand

Oh ok you don’t like discussion…cool with me

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