Feel help: i just turned 16 but i already wna have a baby wt my bf.

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i just turned 16 but i already wna have a baby wt my bf.

like i want to and stuff but i dont want to lose all the attention i get from my bf. i knw he would make a great dad. even he wants a baby really bad, its hard to tell him no but i just kant rght now not wen im goin through so much. but sometimes i feel like it would make things better some how. idk wat to do, think, or say anymore. just i want a baby but nt now. any advice?

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ILoveJerryH. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

its hard

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t. Have. A. Baby. Now.

Wait.

Yes you arn’t going to be too inclined to take my advice because it’s repetitive and you think you know better but you will regret it.

You will put your body through a LOT at such a young age

You think your boobs, tummy and vagina are going to look the same after?? Seriously.

Mentally and finacially you’d have no quality of life either.

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.Eli. 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

If you ask me, having a baby before the age of at least 21 is just wrong.
Well, can you afford to have a baby? Are you legally old enough? Can you give the baby everything he needs?
If not then DEFINITELY forget about it until you’re older.

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ILoveJerryH. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

i am. well atleast a want to.

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some1onfire1 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I say dont have a baby until you can type with proper grammar. we dont need a bunch of babies raised by 16 year old’s anyways.

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Shankycakes 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I think you should really consider your future for yourself, boyfriend and future child. You need to stabalize your life before you even THINK about it. Im pregnant now at 19 and i love my boyfriend to death but i did not want one now. Its going to be so much harder and im not going to be able to get things done like college as fast as i wanted too. The best decision would be to take the time to grow in your relationship and take time to set your life up financially before even considering a baby!

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Anonymous #
2 years, 11 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

some1onfire1 wrote:
I say dont have a baby until you can type with proper grammar. we dont need a bunch of babies raised by 16 year old’s anyways.

Specially if they use apostrophes where they shouldn’t!

It’s not “16 year old’s”. It’s “16 year olds.”

The pot calling the kettle black.

:D

only he didn’t claim he wanted a kid of his own… ;p

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

some1onfire1 wrote:
I say dont have a baby until you can type with proper grammar. we dont need a bunch of babies raised by 16 year old’s anyways.

Specially if they use apostrophes where they shouldn’t!

It’s not “16 year old’s”. It’s “16 year olds.”

The pot calling the kettle black.

:D

hahaha sorry but you don’t see me hankering for a baby do ya?

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Anonymous #
2 years, 11 months ago (59 minutes after post)

i just turned 16 but i already wna have a baby wt my bf.

Very stupid idea. Wait for a few years - 10..15 years or so.

hmmmmm8 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

some1onfire1 wrote:
I say dont have a baby until you can type with proper grammar. we dont need a bunch of babies raised by 16 year old’s anyways.

Don’t.
Don’t.
Olds.

I’m guessing you’re not going to be having a baby anytime soon, either.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

hmmmmm8 wrote:

some1onfire1 wrote:
I say dont have a baby until you can type with proper grammar. we dont need a bunch of babies raised by 16 year old’s anyways.

Don’t.
Don’t.
Olds.

I’m guessing you’re not going to be having a baby anytime soon, either.

hopefuly not

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 year after post)

Why not do it later when:

1. You’re done with education.
2. Have a job.
3. Can support yourself.
4. Can support the child.
5. Are sure that this is the right guy.

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