I was wondering, if this is normal.

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I was wondering, if this is normal.

Right now I am in high school. My dream is to become a registered nurse (RN) and go on many mission trips around the world. I want to travel, I want to help others. I want to see everything, and explore to my heart’s content. The thing is, my heart is really set on this. It is to the point where I don’t really want to even get married until a lot later in life, so I will be able to live my dream of going on mission trips as a nurse. I figured it would be so much easier to get up and leave for a month on these trips without worrying about a husband or a kid. So I have come to a thought, is this actually normal of someone really wanting to do this?

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I was wondering, if this is normal. Right now I am in high school. My dream is to become a registered nurse (RN) and go on many mission trips around the world. I want to travel, I want to help others. I want to see everything, and explore to my heart’s content. The thing is, my heart is really set on this. It is to the point where I don’t really want to even get married until a lot later in life, so I will be able to live my dream of going on mission trips as a nurse. I figured it would be so much easier to get up and leave for a month on these trips without worrying about a husband or a kid. So I have come to a thought, is this actually normal of someone really wanting to do this? us your story.

CorpseFire 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

eh i dont really have a story or a similar feeling but its completly normal, its human nature to have these thoughts. some people are better off by themselves and others need a partner.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

awesome, do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don’t let anything stop you from your dream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mumstheword 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

absolutely!

follow your dream. What’s stopping you?

ChaosZen 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Not “normal” in the sense that lots of people do it, but very commendable. Or rather, it may not be normal, it’s much better than normal. That’s kind of what Mother Theresa did, except without being an RN and she focussed more on getting food and clothing for children around the world… but still, I do hope you stick with it. Why be “normal” when you can be so much better?

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Coldsandstorm 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

ChaosZen wrote:
Not “normal” in the sense that lots of people do it, but very commendable. Or rather, it may not be normal, it’s much better than normal. That’s kind of what Mother Theresa did, except without being an RN and she focussed more on getting food and clothing for children around the world… but still, I do hope you stick with it. Why be “normal” when you can be so much better?

Aw, thanks for all the replies. This really helps everyone. I am really going to devote my life to this. I just wanted to see if I am making the right choice, I think I am.

Live_for_Thought 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Why care about being normal? If it makes you happy do it.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Its normal ,its actually wonderful that yu wanna concern your dream so much and there shouldnt be anyone in your way .so i sayy go for itt ,!

Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

At least you have a plan, that is a good start. No need in rushing getting married or raising a family.

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cassieoklesh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Hey, what’s normal? That is why people are different after all. If everyone wanted the same thing in life this world would be one boring place. Go for it! You are one brave person!

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RRJR 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (53 minutes after post)

You go girl! You have your priorities straight. If your career is your priority there is nothing wrong with that. And not wanting to ruin a marriage or not be able to care for a child because you are wrapped up in your work is commendable. You have carefully weighed your options and know where your heart is. You are not only thinking of yourself here. You are making sure that you don’t hurt others with your plans.I know several of my family members who did just as you are thinking and are very happy with their choice. Life my change down the road for you, who knows. But If this is your goal then give it a shot. No one has a rule that says you must get married and have children. You be you and don’t worry what the rest of the world thinks. It’s not like you’re doing anything illegal.

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Coldsandstorm 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day after post)

Thank you, for all your responses everyone. I am glad that I am able to realize that chasing a dream you have is a wonderful goal, and takes a lot to get to. I am happy and confident to know, that I am making the right choice. Again, thank you everyone.

jacobhickso 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

You and I have the same dream! I want to travel and become a Registered Nurse as well! I think we are completely normal. :)

Coldsandstorm 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

jacobhickso wrote:
You and I have the same dream! I want to travel and become a Registered Nurse as well! I think we are completely normal. :)

That is so neat! I hope you are able to live your dream as well, I am glad that I meet another person with the same goal. I wish you good luck!

Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Normal is boring….

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

it is perfectly normal and why shouldn’t you do that if that is what you want to do. live your dream now and don’t settle for what others think you should do, you follow your dreams and heart!!!!!

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