This post left anonymously
I can’t stop looking at her facebook!
I haven’t seen my ex or even talked to her since last summer. She just started her facebook and it’s her holding a baby. It’s killing me not knowing if it’s hers or not! I was doing just fine until I saw that and that’s all I can think about. I know her sister had a baby last summer so it might be hers. I’ve heard of others that can’t stop looking at their ex’s facebook and I thought it would be so simple to not look but now it’s happening to me!!
This open post was written 2 years, 11 months ago | V/U/S: 1,692, 17, 7 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post
Reciprocity (0)
Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.
Post Tags (0)
This post has no tags. Please, help out and add some! (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)
Replies (17)
Where were you?
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
block her? ask her to block you so you can’t look at it anymore? erase your facebook account and find something else do to w/ your time? msg her/call her and ask if it’s hers?
You can block her, and you wont be able to access her facebook.
~Darkness~ wrote:
Well does the baby look new born or nearly a year old?
Or does it look like a photo taken a year ago of a new born? ;)
Simple. Send a message asking her who’s is the baby or get a friend to ask her. Once you know, move on.
~ǝzɐpʎzɐl~ wrote:
~Darkness~ wrote:
Well does the baby look new born or nearly a year old?Or does it look like a photo taken a year ago of a new born? ;)
Ahh ;) Touche!
just call her, and ask how is she doing, pretending you dont know about a baby. she should tell you if she’s given birth, shouldn’t she?
More than this why do you care?
If you didn’t mean enough to each other to stay in contact as friends then why should it matter to you if she’s moved on and had a baby?
I wish I didn’t care but after seeing that picture it’s obviuos to me that I haven’t moved on. It’s crazy after a year it affects me so much. She had some major issues with work the last time I saw and she seemed really depressed. I was the one who made the last contact but she didn’t reply back. I didn’t want to push her so I just let it go.
I’ve thought about contacting her and if she didn’t reply back maybe it would make me move on..I don’t know.
Anonymous wrote:
I wish I didn’t care but after seeing that picture it’s obviuos to me that I haven’t moved on. It’s crazy after a year it affects me so much. She had some major issues with work the last time I saw and she seemed really depressed. I was the one who made the last contact but she didn’t reply back. I didn’t want to push her so I just let it go.I’ve thought about contacting her and if she didn’t reply back maybe it would make me move on..I don’t know.
Maybe do that then? It would give you closure.
Has she friended you on FB?
quit being a weirdo. I know sometimes it’s hard because you are curious how people are, but it’s just going to bring up past emotions. I would even recommend deleting your FB account if it becomes more of a problem because it’s not healthy.
Thanks Darkness…
No we are not friends of FB. She just started. I think I will send her something. I always believed closure is something that you have to give yourself but maybe this will help me move on. I just want to get on with my life and stop feeling like this…it’s crazy.
Anonymous wrote:
Thanks Darkness…No we are not friends of FB. She just started. I think I will send her something. I always believed closure is something that you have to give yourself but maybe this will help me move on. I just want to get on with my life and stop feeling like this…it’s crazy.
might help… good luck
I know how u feel, its so difficult to stop yourself from looking at facebook, i hate that site in so many ways, it can ruin your life but just try not to let it. If its messing with your head that much, block her….easier said than done i know. Just do what you think is right but try not to beat yourself up
Thanks for your help Dan! I just deleted my whole account yesterday…I’m done dealing with that site.
Thats really good mate, its just malicious. I wish i could bring myself to delete mine tbh, but too many photos…special memories that i just cant let go.
California wrote:
Thanks for your help Dan! I just deleted my whole account yesterday…I’m done dealing with that site.
lol told you. So much easier.
Invite Others to Help
A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.