honest help: How do you deal with angry when you have been mistreated?

Qzzzz

Montpelier, MS, US

How do you deal with angry when you have been mistreated?

Please give me an honest answer.

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JoJo 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

An honest answer from me is not a good answer. I get miserable and I begin to pity myself and then feel bad about myself and think I’m a horrible person because if I wasn’t a horrible person why would someone mistreat me. I am trying to learn more positive ways, and when I do I promise I will share, but for now, don’t use my method.

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Qzzzz 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

lol…..You are a just like us my friend! That is exactly how we are dealing with this situation. We are human beings and this is a very typical reaction. When we get our feet grounded, maybe, maybe, we will think differently.

You are a good kid K!

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JoJo 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Thanks Q! You are awesome and I am praying for you soooooo much.

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Qzzzz 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (19 minutes after post)

That is the best response as we know, but when you are mad, it does not get higher than the ceiling K! But, when you are doing the praying, I know that will get WAY UP THERE!!!!!!!

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jb0nd3837 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (15 hours, 20 minutes after post)

When i’m really mad, i’ll just leave the situation and go somewhere quiet and think about whatever it was that made me mad in the first place.

When me and my ex use to argue, I would hear what she had to say, never really expressing any emotion, and when she was done, by the time she had finally stopped yaking abotu whatever she was mad about i’d leave. OMG that use to make her madder than she initially was, but when i’d return and was all calm and ready to discuss camly what was bothering her, she was so mad at me leaving she forgot the initital reasons she got mad to begin with. :)

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hln_rushin 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

i was going to kill myself wen i lived whith my burth mom. i tried to kill myself with bleach,
proxied and alot of other way.

Help me with: i want to kill myself becouse i cant live with what my birth mom and my burth brouther did to me

hln_rushin 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

if i am going to kill myself i need help

Help me with: i want to kill myself becouse i cant live with what my birth mom and my burth brouther did to me

Qzzzz 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (2 days, 13 hours after post)

You definitely need help. That is a given. Hey, if you got to do, do it! No one ever liked “quitter and a chicken.” If you are too big a sissy to live life and always crying about your problems, like the rest of us don’t have any. Got no time for this bull.

Now, if you want to use those God given talents and make something out of yourself, then that is a “horse of a different color!” The only difference between me and you my friend, I GOT PROBLEMS, BUT I AIN’T QUITTING. So, quit your bellying acheing and crying, and start living life.

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Qzzzz 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (3 days after post)

Tuff love is needed sometimes…fairly odvious that this poster made the post to yank our chain or there would have been a reply.

JJ, respect your opinion, my grandfather committed suicide and saw how much it hurt my family. Just don’t have much patience with quitter. Sorry….

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