relationship help: well, i just finished a relationship and i feel so lonely. - Help.com

Define good enough for me, if you would please. Do you feel that your not setting your standards high enough, and settling for second best?

What is your idea guy? And why have you been seeing guys that are not what you really want?

look within and build a better you the better guy will come

your looking for the wrong things…
If you open your eyes you may find the right guy right in front of your face.
And you really should say, You find guy that are not right for you.
NOT, there not good enough for you. sounds like you have a big chip on your shoulder when you say like that.
I beleive all women dont really look for the right charicteristics in a guy,
You always look for someone who you need to change in some way then your not happy when you cant do it.
Iam not saying that is your situation. But alot of the times this is true. LOOK IN FRONT OF YOUR EYES. you may be surprised.. =p

Many times we think that having someone else in our life will make all of our problems go away. Believe me, you could have the best person for you right by your side, but still be lonely. It’s true, happiness is what you make of it. You need to live your life to the fullest whether you are single, engaged or married. Not only that, a watched pot never boils….. you will only find Mr. Right when you stop looking. Maybe you should try joining a group of some sort. I met my husband at church. I had been tired of all the wrong choices I had been making and decided it was time to get my life in order and forget about chasing after Mr. Right. Then there he was!!! and the funny thing was that I had decided to be happy being single. Don’t worry, your day will come!

To the person that said they feel lonely do they have a house or a place to live? did they loose everything they had because of a lie by the system cowards? are there parents still alive? well my mother was murddered by the system and so was my dog, and i was made homeless and put through the ringer because we do not have a constitution anymore. we have to get toghther and fight the lying conservitives who ruin the world like the smokers, drinkers and drug addictts. we must take an united stand and get our rights back and the pigs off the street because they are the reall crminals. now if you still have your family you will find some one. again i am replying to the person who said they feel lonly.

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it sounds like your stuck up and that you think your above everyone the problem is you look within cupcake

Ps Ps, I got kinda angry when you said “Not good enough for you”
But hey..When one ussually breaks up with one’s bf/gf, who doesnt feels lonely? who doesnt feels sad? Just wait a few weeks and you will feel better…and keep living..you’ll eventually meet someone who is as high as your espectations :p or close enough!

Sometimes it is good to be alone. You must know who you truly are, and learn to be happy with yourself. Once you have realized this, it will be easier to find someone who is meant to be with you. You should never enter a realtionship just because you do not want to be alone. You will find the person that is right for you and in turn that person will find the person who is right for them. You must be patient.

Just wait… it’s better if you allow him to find you =D

you have to learn to live with yourself frist,befor you get in a relatship

im in the same situtation, my ex wants her space, but be single for a bit live it up have fun, i know its harder than it seems, but go out with your friends, try not to think about ur ex bf, but another guy will find ya u dont always get the right one!!