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I’ve been feeling this girl for a bit but her best friend is SO annoying!

She’s superficial and quite the cock block, what should I do? I want to keep seeing this girl but her friend keeps getting in the way and I know my lady friend is too nice to tell her friend to back off.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (7 minutes after post)

well… the girl might just be looking out for her friend. She can see how you disrespect her friend; your choice of terms - such as “cock-block” - shows me you are not all that respectful of girls. Girl friends stick together, and if you want to be with one, you have to pass all of their tests.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (10 minutes after post)

If she is blocking someone who is only focused on the sexual aspect of a relationship, I wouldn’t call that superificial. If you want trust, gain it.

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marshmadg782 offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (10 minutes after post)

I’ve dated and am friends with girls that use the term cock block, how does that make me disrespectful? I am polite to the girl I’m dating’s friend, I try to be her friend and engage her in conversation she can participate in when we’re out in a group. She just can’t stop talking about herself, and when we’re out in a group she won’t let her friend say goodbye to me alone. It’s not as if I have gone out on a few dates with her. We’ve had the same group of friends for a while, and have been dating for the last 2 1/2 months. Her friend never seemed to have a problem with me until we started dating, although we never really socialized until I started dating her friend.

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..Minerva.. offline Verified User (3 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (16 minutes after post)

You can’t blame a girl’s friend for not getting laid, ie. the only cock block there is in this situation is your girlfriend.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (23 minutes after post)

The fact that a girl uses a term, is not always permission for you to use it. I’m assuming you’re a boy, and not a lesbian. We as men need to be more respectful of women. If all you are thinking about is sex (as the term cock block would imply) then that is disrespectful. Do you use the N word freely, openly? and if you do what is it’s context. Do you call people **** or faggie? if so what is the context. The words we use tell others a great deal about us. The use of pejoratives is not the wisest thing to do if you want people to think well of you.

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naomiyos offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (43 minutes after post)

turn back now!!! it wont work out for you sorry dude! she will always have her friends back. find someone else to feel!!

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~Empress~ Hazelnut offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (44 minutes after post)

I was going to mention the vulgar words that you described the girl. but seeing as that is what you used this meaning that she is stopping you from getting any action.if thats what your in for well cheerio

but let me act i didnt see how you refered to her as such.i’d say maybe she wants you and is jealous the possibilities are endless i would suggest you to tell the girl your seeing how you want to go one on one dates not double?

and you cant and should never try to seperate friends. just let her be but make sure you tell her that your not to in love with her bf.and you want me time with her if that is what you want just tell her.and truly if she is truly that nice not to tell her off hmmm well you could try to speak to to her and ask her for a little space please doont be too crude or rude.if you want out just tell her i want me time with your friend not us time

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