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this is my first post s hope it goes well

well the reason i am posting is that i need some help or advise or something about life.

first of i have resently lost the love of my life over something stupied and i cannot remember what it was. i still have feelings for her and really miss her, i am unsure of what she wants as she says she wants me at times and other times she is really angry and saying i dont love her. i have tried to show her how much she means to me but it has not worked. should i give her time, keep trying or just leave all together.

i also have a problem with opening up to people as i find it hard to share my feelings and when people ask i always say i am ok and bottle everything up. i use to be able to open up to my gf but right now i cannot have noone i can talk to about how i feel as i think people might think i am strange or being stupied or they might just not understand

there is also this feeling of not going anywhere with my life. right now i am at college but its the summer holidays now so i have nothing to do for ages. i am unable to get a job even though i have been trying for a long time and even mcdonalds have said no to me and with no job means no money so i am stuck inside with nothing to do.

hope i have done this right.

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hunter.leed offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (4 minutes after post)

There are going to be times in your life when you’re not going anywhere.

As for your love, you need to remember why you first fell in love with her and, if possible, why she fell in love with you. Are you both still providing the same things for each other?

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (46 minutes after post)

i feel in love with her coz she was this beautiful amazeing person who cared about how i was feeling

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (51 minutes after post)

well now that we are not together she dont want to listen to me complain but she is just as beautiful as ever

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hunter.leed offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

cant think of a name wrote:
i feel in love with her coz she was this beautiful amazeing person who cared about how i was feeling

Have you told her this.
They say flattery gets you nowhere, but they’re wrong.

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

yes i have told her this but she dosent think she is or thinks i dont mean it

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 12 months ago (4 days, 16 hours after post)

email you? i am confused

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sameroad offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 12 months ago (4 days, 16 hours after post)

black rose wrote:
well now that we are not together she dont want to listen to me complain but she is just as beautiful as ever

well, she’s not just there for you to complain to right? prove to her how much she means to you. you know, not just by saying things but by doing things, like making huge efforts to make things work out.

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 12 months ago (4 days, 16 hours after post)

black rose, i havent given my real name to anyone

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 12 months ago (4 days, 16 hours after post)

nope not me

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