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I fell in love with a girl from chat and the phone!

so here’s how my story goes….we’ve been talking for a few months now and neither of us expected anything from it, it was just fun. even in the beginning though we spent countless! hours talking mostly over the phone though as we do now…basicly she’s everything i want! i’m not gonna start throwing out 10 million reasons why…so here’s the jist of it all…i think that by talking on the phone and chat it really! gives us the chance to get to know one another, there are no outside influences and we can Completely be ourselves and tell eachother our inner thoughts ya know…where as you meet someone in person and sometimes there’s assumptions or don’t know what to talk about, worrying about other things around you, etc…so basicly where we’re at now is to the point where i’m going to move from Florida to Pennsylvania to be with her!!! She’s 30 i’m 20…she is married BUT..he hasn’t worn his ring in over a year and things have been messed up for longer than that, so i have had no influence on the fact that she’s leaving him!!!..she has two boys “little man austin” who is 10 and baby jackie who is 2..they are both very cute…we have covered all our bases and every scenario possible that we can think of…ex., we are truthful and completely honest with eachother/if we think anything, anything will have any type of affect on us we’ll bring it up and discuss it, such as her kids, etc….so nothing is gonna be a shocker we both are very aware of our situation and what we’re getting into…so on that note, i really love her with all my heart! she has made my adreanaline flow like it hasn’t in a couple of years, my heart is starting to race just telling that part, i get butterflies talking to her…what is really crazy though is when we talk it’s like we can Really feel eachother and i mean that as in have you ever had that feeling someone is standing behind you or your shadow is moving on you!? heh…yeah it’s a very intense mind type of feeling, it’s just unexplainable really!!! so yeah, this is my love story for ya’ll if you want to know any details on it or have any quesitons or comments just leave a line ;)

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

If you two are really committed (as you seem to be) i dont forsee any problems you cant overcome together. Your talking stuff through and not holding anything back, which is the foundation for any healthy relationship in my experience.

With that said, contingency plans never hurt - before completely uprooting yourself from Florida and moving to Pennsylvania possibly take a trip to visit her first - spend some time in her company

however you choose to persue it i wish you all the luck in the world =)

If you two are really committed (as you seem to be) i dont forsee any problems you cant overcome together. Your talking stuff through and not holding anything back, which is the foundation for any healthy relationship in my experience. With that said, contingency plans never hurt - before completely uprooting yourself from Florida and moving to Pennsylvania possibly take a trip to visit her first - spend some time in her company however you choose to persue it i wish you all the luck in the world =)

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Southwick, MA, US | 6 years, 4 months ago (3 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Whoa, Whoa, Whoa……If I understand correctly, she is still married, and living with her husband. Correct? If so, you really need to slow down a bit. Relax. Wait until Hubby is “officially” out of the picture. Even then I would take things slowly. It’s a very tough situation, since you live so far apart. Perhaps you could spend a week or two together a few times before you pack up and move. Also, is her Husband aware of the situation? If not, how is he going to react when he finds out?

Whoa, Whoa, Whoa......If I understand correctly, she is still married, and living with her husband. Correct? If so, you really need to slow down a bit. Relax. Wait until Hubby is "officially" out of the picture. Even then I would take things slowly. It's a very tough situation, since you live so far apart. Perhaps you could spend a week or two together a few times before you pack up and move. Also, is her Husband aware of the situation? If not, how is he going to react when he finds out?

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