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Im so pissed right now..i told my mom why i was mad

the other day..and apperently i was mad for adumb reason..but for her and me..we both know what she did was wrong..and she shoulda been thinkin more for me..bc i am the daughter..and i am the one with the self esteem problems and this was soppose to help me..and ended up only making me feel worse about everything..so itold her what she did made me mad and why…and blah blah blah..and how i didnt appriciate she got my brother into it..and yeah..and ofcrose she goes against it all and only thinks about herself and how i wa sthe one who messedup and if we where roomates she would never talk to me again..and blah blah blah..and she is soppose to care about me and want to help..and she is only ddoing the opposite..i wish i could drive so i could leave this place ..a.s.a.p.

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cassygur offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

who what did u do or say or what did she say??

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ballerinax offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

well we went to a meeting thing..and i have a problem with speaking up cuz im shy..but i took a workshop so i could speak up..and this was gonna be the first time i would tell people like adults and wutev but i got scared so instead of saying them i whispered them to her..hoping she would push me to speak up but instead she told me my ideas where to expensive for wut where doing …and finally when i had a good idea she said the same thing..but then she pretty much mad it her idea and told everyone it..she was like yeah *chloe* (my nonreal name lol) said this..but in reality..thats not why we went it was to teach me to speak up and i ended up not speaking up at alll..i was so mad that i didnt talk to her for 2 days..which i know was too long but that wa sonly b.c i havnt been feeligng very good so i just accidently sleep alot ..so we just talked and she was like blah blah blah that was bad of u too take to long and if i wasnt your mom id make sure to make your life hell and never talk to u again..bc u mad such a big deal of such a small thing..and now i know who u really are..and i was like ok so who am i?? and then she looked at me like dont talk back..but OMG ahhggbut yeah and aton more..

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cassygur offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

OK WHO THATS ALOT LOL

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glitzpeep offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

She shouldn’t have gotten your brother into it- it’s your buisness, and no one else’s. This happens to me to. But still, think about it- in a month, will you be thinking,”Wow, I was overreacting?” If you’ve never been tested for NLD or dislexia, they both effect your emotions- I have NLD.
-A friend

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animal offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

So you told your mother something and she didnt read your mind and react exactly how you wanted her to……..all you heard was “Blahblahblah.” As a rule you shouldnt try to talk to her when your angry. It only leads to an argument. If you get mad, tell her your upset and want time to cool down before trying to talk. She should understand that.

As for the sleeping too much, its a sign of depression. Maybe you should seek a councelor to talk to.

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ballerinax offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (58 minutes after post)

well im on a depresent..and yeah it took me 2 days to cool off..and thats when we talked cuz it took me 2 days to pull my words together..andthats why shee soo mad cuz it took me to long..wtf lol..but yeah i did kinda overreact..alot i guess..but still!!

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animal offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

Usually when someone is on a depressant, they are in councelling. Meds can help, but not by themselves. If you are in councelling, ask the therapist how to control anger. If something that small had you upset for that long, thats not good. A therapist can offer some suggestions on hpw to deal with anger issues.

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