girl help: I really need advice, please. - Help.com

Decide what you want, do you want the love or to be free of the love?

If you want to stop thinking about it, you might as well leave, because if it IS a crush… you can’t dismiss even crushes right off, no matter what anyone says. You have to go deep enough to decide… is it a crush?

If your answer is yes, then you move to the next step.

Will you pursue or shun it?

And then if you do choose to pursue it, that’s a whole other story.

My name is Evan Davison, I’m a bisexual 16 year old male and my first experience crushing on another guy was an eyeopener and well, I cherish it, because it taught me about myself after I stopped pushing away.

Perhaps I’m not the best source of unbiased advice, but I personally feel as if these feelings cannot and should not be dismissed, as they can cause problems if they’re left under the surface too long.

If you wish to talk to me personally, just ot have someone who will listen to you, I am on AIM. Would you like that? It’s so much easier to get the detail’sof a person’s feelings in real time, because no one wants to put things they might not like others reading down in a post that will stay up for a long time.

My biggest advice at this point: relax, breathe deep, and look inside yourself.

Barring what the bible says: Homosexual, bisexuals and lesbians are not vile creatures, and don’t let yourself think less of yourself for a possible crush.