What Does it Mean to Stop Looking?
So I was having a discussion with one of my friends tonight about how I’m 20, almost 21, and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I was saying how frustrated I am that there’s no available girls at my church (there haven’t been for years) and how lonely I’ve been feeling because quite literally all of my friends but 1 are in a relationship.
She told me that I need to stop looking and the I’ll find someone. I thought about this for a moment and asked “How do I stop looking?” and she said that I need to be content with life. I think that’s the problem, I’m really not. I want to advance my career, I want to move out of my parents house, and I would like to not be a wheel anymore :p
So how do I stop looking? Or have I even been looking? I know that in the current situation I’m in that there is no one for me to pursue, so does to stop looking mean to not want a relationship?
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