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!!!! IM SOO SCARED! my dad, he might abuse me! i mean hes been getting mean and yelling at me for no rezon and blaming me for stuff i never do/did and ect! and im just a girl! this is scaring me so bad that i got my mom on speed dial and i am packed up to go and dorians(my kats) stuff. Dorian notices it too cuz he wont let my dad touch him at ALL, he’ll just run to me and dorians only a kitten(4 months old). i take dorian for walks and when we get to our apt door he would pull back and refuse to go in! and even though dorians young…. cant cats smell when somthings not right… cuz i trust him and my dad is scaring us… and today he yelled at me for the counter not beig clean and it wasnt my fault!i havent set nothing on the counter! is this all my faul
t? is it a good thing i packed? cuz i dont want him hurting me and then maby killing dorian!and im crying while typing this all! sumtimes it get soo bad we have to hide in the attic and yes our apts have attics. myy dad doesnt no about it cuz its in my room. what do i do? should i just go to my moms? i need advice!

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ar33v3 offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

He isnt going to hurt you. Stop doing things that make him upset with you. It doesnt matter if you didnt make the mess on the counter, if your dad tells you to clean it up, you do it.

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2 years, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

police? call your mum, try go somewhere you feel safe
do whatever you can to keep safe, thats the main thing

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linban9 offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

if you feel that scared try talking to him and tell your mom ask her what you should do if you feel completely unsafe go to your moms.

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zomendrieca offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

ok… ya i should talk to her. cuz its been getting worse he alredy kicked dorian in the stomech today for no resone today!

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linban9 offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

ok so most DEFINATLY go dont just talk to her just go he has already showed violence which you left out. call your mom tell her whats up and REFUSE to stay there if you have any problems run away somewhere safe a friends house and then let your mom know your serious

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zomendrieca offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (16 minutes after post)

ok…im outa the house at my frends house now ill call her tommarow and tell her to come get me. and scince my dad will be at his job…. ill just put down a note and leave with dorian so there is no violence.

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linban9 offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (16 minutes after post)

good ideas good luck n be carefull

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (18 minutes after post)

but dont go to get your stuff till your with your mom so nothing bad happens like he comes home and freaks or something

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zomendrieca offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (21 minutes after post)

ok hell be at his job! and i alredy snuck out to my frends house wit dorian so well be fine for about 6 hours tomarrow befor hell be back. well be long gone before he gets back.lol

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klee_kle offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

how old are you?

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