boyfriend help: i feel so insecure at myself i dnt like the way i look im way to skinny flat chest n i hav vitiligo . - Help.com

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i feel so insecure at myself i dnt like the way i look im way to skinny flat chest n i hav vitiligo .

As u can see i do hav reason 4 being so insecure about myself im 20 years old n i hate my life all my boyfriends that i had in the past cheat on me n the boyfriend i hav now always talking about big boobs or whenever we go to the mall he star saying oo look at those big boobs n stuff like that he make me feel more insecure im so ashamed of myself is so embarrasing. I cant wear nothing cute because of my vitiligo. Vitiligo is a skin disorder is white patches on ur skin n i always hav to b wearing long jeans n long pants i cant go to the pool i cant go to the lake or the river because i feel so embarrased of myself n it is embarrasing nobody from my family hav this but me. Im like the ugly duck of the family. Thats why i hate summer so bad. I wish i had a nice body n no vitiligo. Then i hav to keep this in me because i dnt want to tell nobody. I hav 1 son hes my world. Hes father lie to me thats y we end up breaking up he use to b kinda nice with me he make me love myself sometimes he look look me right in the eyes n tell me how beautiful i am n i use to believe him till he lie to me n still love him but i kno hes ashamed of me to n i dnt kno y i get into another relationship knowing that i know is not gonna work out guys always looking 4 girls with nice body with a big *** n big tits but they dnt look 4 honest girls that are not that attractive but hav a big heart. im so mad,sad,depressed ect.

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Kalen offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (23 hours, 9 minutes after post)

How you look is only important to people who are shallow. Having a big heart is more valuable than having physical assets. Just have patience, hun. You’ve got to love yourself for who you are inside, and not worry about how you look.

So you have white patches on your skin, so what? It’s still skin, it still does a good job keeping all your guts protected from the sun and the elements. If you love yourself and know that you’re valuable, when you feel confident about your value as a person, then people will be attracted to that confidence.

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nbaker117 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 years, 6 months after post)

I have vitiligo over the majority of my body too. it started when i was 12yrs old. I am now 36yrs old. I believe people will only truely like you for who you are! If you have to cover up for someone else then they are NOT WORTH IT! there are many many more people out there who will accept you for who you are. Vitiligo is so much more common these days. I live by ‘I am who i am. if you want to change one little part of me then I dont want you in my life’. you need to be you. People may look or stare, but sometimes they may be looking or staring at you for your true beauty not for the patches. Your personality will always out shine the vitiligo. Be strong. Walk with your head held high! You deserve to be as happy and proud as the next person.

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