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I have a question about my big brother.

He’s kind of in trouble and I don’t know what to do. For the last three years he’s been obsessed with losing weight. He was sort of heavy to begin with, but it kind of got out of control. He rarely eats anymore, and avoids meals. The few times that he does eat he takes this weird laxative stuff afterwards, or sometimes during the meal. I’m getting really worried about him. My mom has noticed this too and has tried to talk to him about it, but my dad encourages it. Whenever my mom tries to get him to eat normally he yells at her about ’sabotaging him’. He even gives my brother the laxatives, and makes sure he never runs out. My mom’s pretty much given up talking about it, since my dad runs the house. I’ve tried talking to my brother directly, but he says that he’s fat and ugly and needs to change that. None of his teachers seem to notice that he’s not eating lunch or anything, but I guess that’s because he’s a boy and they’re taught to look out for the girls. I don’t know who I can talk to about this, and I’m scared for my big brother. What should I do?

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 3 years, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

How was his weigh?

Now, what is it?

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 3 years, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Again, lol, what was his weigh, and now what is it?

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empireearthk offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Well, he’s over six feet tall now (he grew a lot in the last three years, he used to be about 5 four) and I don’t know his weight… he won’t let anyone see his weight except for my dad. He said he was embarressed or something… But it’s getting to the point where you can see all the ribs through clothing.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 3 years, 4 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Talk to the school counselor…would be a good starting place!

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lsmills offline Verified User (3 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

You have to try to get him to a doctor for a check up and a discussion about the way he is treating his body and mind. Try to get some of his friends to help you with this.
Also take Qzzzzz’s advice, sometimes the school counselor can work wonders.
If this won’t work try and get him (with the advice of your doctor) to take some health supplements.

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