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I hate my life I just want to kill myself to get it over with…

my mother says no to everything I’m 18 and she treats me like I’m 13. She makes feel like I can’t make any choices in my life…and that if I go out with any new guys I’m going to **** them….she makes me go out with this one Guy that I don’t like cause he’s her perfect angle. She reads all my txts goes through all my stuff I have 0 privacy…I can’t take it anymore either I kill her or kill myself.

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beccafunn offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 minute after post)

DONT KILL HER!
you will go to jail where you will not have any freedom, and you will get raped.
even worse than your current situation.
Here’s what you can do, talk to her. If she doesn’t coapp then just save your money and move out:)

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

You’ll be able to live on your own sometime. Destroying your entire life because of this current place you’re at doesn’t make any sense.

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Dr. Jackson offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Neither, move out. If thats not an option, enroll at a college thats far away and has a dormitory. Just get out, no one needs to be controlled and driven to the breaking point. If ya can just move in with a friend, or heck a boyfriend. Its not great advice, but I don’t see many other options.

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karebare414 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Neither is a choice. Your life is yours, your 18 and legally old enough to spring… maybe a cooling off would do… but most likely you need to seek some professional help which also would involve your Mother… is their a Pastor? a former school teacher? a friend you could consult and stay with? I wish I was nearby and could give you refuge… wow, what can I advise… if you need an email friend, thats probably all I can offer at this time… please dont give up…hang in there and write me if you want to….krb

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karebare414 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Ok, one more time, if I can be of help to you, I would luv doing so.but I must hear from you, Asap…. I have been up since 440 am, and must go to bed… sooo, if I miss you tonight, please write me,,, I have many years worth of wisdom and love to share with you…..please?????krb.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (26 minutes after post)

karebare414 wrote:
if I miss you tonight, please write me,,, I have many years worth of wisdom and love to share with you…..please?????krb.

It’s been a while, you may as well go to bed. Check again tomorrow.

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Mayawalker offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Move outt! i did!:)

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (13 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Ah, good. It’s always nice to let out steam. And being financially independent can be difficult.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (14 hours, 5 minutes after post)

More anonymous interrogation ^^
You know, you could just ask me through shouts. Anyways…

Yep, I’m with my parents. Living in my parents’ basement as they say ^^
But I love my family, so it’s no trouble to me or them. The income I get would be better spent on college loans or paying off their mortgage rather than renting a place for me. Though I must admit I’m having difficulty getting work, that will likely be resolved this semester.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (15 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Actually, I already do ^^

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Posts can be kept anonymous for people’s confidentiality.

Puck You invited 1 user to read this post 1 day, 1 hour ago.

May be the OP though.

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Oh yea! I wrote that. I just needed to vent and get it off my chest. I would never do that. Sorry. :-/

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

vbr wrote:

werewolf_moon_frea wrote:
I’m sorry I didn’t mean to cause any problems! I was just blowing off some steam…I hope everything works out I really didn’t mean to cause any problems…again sorry!

thank you very much!
now i hope his dumb *** reads this!

This person couldn’t have written it they have only been around 13 minutes. I wrote it.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

And you’ve been around… 2.5 years. Yeah, that seems more credible.

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
And you’ve been around… 2.5 years. Yeah, that seems more credible.

Why not? I can have any kind of problem at any point in my stay at help.com.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

True. You could even have them all like me, hehe.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Puck You wrote:
This person couldn’t have written it they have only been around 13 minutes. I wrote it.

Puck You wrote:
Oh yea! I wrote that. I just needed to vent and get it off my chest. I would never do that. Sorry. :-/

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

I don’t get it. What are you saying? I have other posts to get to rather than sift through subtlety.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

“eeek. Original OP came on and claimed their post.”
It was sarcasm. We were having fun joking about this thread. I appreciate that you find the humor in it too ^^

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

DarkSnow wrote:
“eeek. Original OP came on and claimed their post.”
It was sarcasm. We were having fun joking about this thread. I appreciate that you find the humor in it too ^^

lol.

We have to joke or else we would suffer from burn out really fast.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

“The world is a comedy to those who think and a tragedy to those who feel.”

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Why on earth would we make an account to do so and then compromise it? Makes no sense. Whatever. I’m off to a religious debate on another thread. If you’d like to join the chat, be my guest.

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Really? You seriously think we would waste our time on something as trivial as this. I am off to a different post. Have a nice life.

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☠wUt☠ offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

this is one of the phew occasions i out anonymous people.

vbr wrote:
I’m not going to kill her i was just leting out some steam….karebare414 i’m sorry i didn’t reply to you sooner i pretty much wrote this post and went to bed…thanks so much for you trying to help me and stuff…but the only opption i see is to work my butt off at this comunity college im in, to transfer to a university far away from here in 2 years…and work to get money to support myself tho it all….but both options thats not that easy.

http://help.com/user/527681-werewolf_…

same people, now what to do to with them

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