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I am in a terrible love triangle.
I need some advice on how to walk away and end the cycle of hurt. I have been involved with this man for well over a year and believed everything he said to me. He was breaking up with his girlfriend when i met him…or so he said, then she found out about us before he actually told her and flipped out, they had been dating 8 mos at the time. I have no ties on this man, i love him and want him to feel comfortable with his choice so at first i understood when he would go back to her for a week then back to me for a month…then a weekend with her, and 4 months with me. Now their contact has intensified, she just popped up on his doorstep a month ago and all has broken loose between he and I…He has been telling her for the past month that he loves her and wants to be with her and he has told her he wants to marry her. He has denied it to me of course as he is telling me those very same things. I am so hurt and cannot believe the lies and manipulation some people will go through to have their cake and eat it too. I know now what i have to do, i just gotta do it and it’s hard right now cause he is out of the country…do i ignore his calls when he come’s back? or do i take it and act like an adult and just tell him it is over…keep in mind he is a smoooooth talker and i don’t know if i have the stregnth to say no to him… help please!
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