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Help me please.

My friend is being a wh**e and she tells me that she is feeling sick to her stomach for being this way. i tell her to stop and take a look at the life she is placing herself in and she agrees with me that it is bad but when she is around this guys she is a total b***** and she acts like a who** again. What do i do? should i let her learn a lesson or still try to help her even though she refuses to listen to me.
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rockstr75 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I would not help her if she is acting like she is and wont listen to you

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Lostmyself offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

But iam worried about her, even though i told her thousands of times.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Best you can do, is be there for her I’m afraid..when her mind clears up, hopefully then she will realise what a great and amazing friend you are for sticking by her side through it all :)

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Lostmyself offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

But i just feel like i have lost her, even some of my friends that are friends with her think she is losted too.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (20 minutes after post)

And that’s exactly why you should stick with her (If you want to).. she may not realise she is losing her friends because of it. Don’t be afraid to get tough with her, if you think that’s what she needs to see sense (not physically, i just mean a stern talking to)

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Lostmyself offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Yeah its hard for me to even talk to her about this and it just makes me so mad that i just want to hit her and tell her she will fu** it up one of these days. But i have never been so angry like this before cuz i am laways the understanding one and the one that will listen to your problems. Iam sick of doing this cuz they ask me for advice and then just blow me off.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (36 minutes after post)

We all make choices that we shouldn’t at some points in our lives I guess.. There is only so much you can take, and I admire you for sticking with her for this long :) Can you not get some of your friends to help out? I don’t mean everyone start shouting at her, but to try and find out why she does it and make her understand that what she doing is wrong.. not just for her, but her friendships?..

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Lostmyself offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (49 minutes after post)

yeah some of my friends got on her case but i dont htink it did any thing.

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lwpqrsmv. offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Is it possible a counselor at school could talk to her? Would she listen to someone like that? I admire the friend you are, but you also have to look out for you. It seems your emotions over her are starting to wear you down. You can only do so much for her, and if shes not willing to listen to anyone, then you may have to step back.

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Lostmyself offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (23 hours, 2 minutes after post)

That is want i have desided to do. is to back off and let her figure out her own solution to her own problems since she cant listen to me or any of us friends.Thanks u all it helped me out.

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