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I get mad at my boyfriend when he doesn’t say he loves

me or misses me first and he thinks i should assume he missed me but I want him to say it more beause me saying “I missed you” and him saying “I missed you too” doesnt count.

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

it sounds like you are expecting him to say it all the time. are you insecure by any chance

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cheapskatemate offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Maybe you need a real man who isn’t afraid of showing his feelings for you?

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2 years, 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Lets just start with, men are not as inclined to pull all that lovey dovey stuff out all the time, women tend to say it all the time quite half heartedly, but when I man says it you should be able to truly appreciate that he felt it so strong he just needed to come out and say it!
Ive been the needy girl in the past, becareful because this kind of pressure can send them packing…try to appreciate what you do get from him

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2 years, 8 months ago (15 minutes after post)

cheapskatemate wrote:
Maybe you need a real man who isn’t afraid of showing his feelings for you?

but he does, just I dont appreciate it

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2 years, 8 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Lets just start with, men are not as inclined to pull all that lovey dovey stuff out all the time, women tend to say it all the time quite half heartedly, but when I man says it you should be able to truly appreciate that he felt it so strong he just needed to come out and say it!
Ive been the needy girl in the past, becareful because this kind of pressure can send them packing…try to appreciate what you do get from him

but he does show his feelings a lot but it’s…. not good enough?

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2 years, 8 months ago (24 minutes after post)

maybe u need some counselling to talk about your high dependancy then

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Well if you’re that needy soon you won’t have a boyfriend. Get your own self confidence and stop worrying what others are thinking or feeling about YOU. Says you are selfish and egotistical. Which doesn’t add up to nice person to be around.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

cheapskatemate wrote:
Maybe you need a real man who isn’t afraid of showing his feelings for you?

but he does, just I dont appreciate it

You just answered your own question there

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2 years, 8 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Well if you’re that needy soon you won’t have a boyfriend. Get your own self confidence and stop worrying what others are thinking or feeling about YOU. Says you are selfish and egotistical. Which doesn’t add up to nice person to be around.

you’re probs. right lol

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2 years, 8 months ago (41 minutes after post)

sorry, i don’t speak twitter - did you mean to say you are probably right

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EssxAlex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (5 days, 15 hours after post)

in all fairness the more he less it the less you appreciate it :S

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2 years, 8 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

Anonymous wrote:
sorry, i don’t speak twitter - did you mean to say you are probably right

I think you’re smart enough to figure out that “probs” means probably. :) especially since you were smart enough to correct me. :)

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