Love help: Which of these 3 guys would YOU pick?

libbylivesformusi

Which of these 3 guys would YOU pick?

Im 23 years old, so the opinions of you guys dont really make too much difference, but im curious. If you had to pick one of these guys, who would be the least offensive of the three. All answers are opinions, but im interested to know.

guy 1: Was in love with him from the moment you met. The passion is blinding and wonderful. Wants to marry you. Right here, right now. Has known you for a year but you have had some history of him being unpredictable. He is the most likely to give you the storybook ending, but is also the most likely to leave you.

guy 2: Gets you. REALLY gets you. But is COMPLETELY emotionally retarded. He likes you for everything you are. right at this moment. But is more then happy being friends. Openly admits that you are the single reason he is trying in life now, and you are the only person he trusts outside of family. Hints at loving you but will not say it. And has never had a gf before, 2 years older then you

Guy 3: Sweet. Very sweet. Very attractive. But there’s not really a spark. He cares about you alot though and when you are talking to him, you can see yourself being with him. But when he’s not there, he’s one of those that is easy to just not think about. He’s also from a very different culture, one that you arent sure if you would be comfortable trying to fit into. But he REALLY cares about you

Tell me which guy, and why.

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RaspberryUnicorn42 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Guy II.

The spark with Guy I would burn out and hurt me. And without a spark from Guy III, there’s just a friendship.

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Always griffin 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (13 minutes after post)

guy #1 sounds the best give the other 2 my number LOL. You need someone who will treat you good. I a taking can of a man for blew out his liver DRINKING. I do everything for him and he talks to me like I’m I don’t know what/ He brags how he’s such a good driver when I asked “you know I’ve never lost my license for drunk driving, and how many times have you TWICE.Goof luck to you

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2 years, 8 months ago (40 minutes after post)

ha funny guy 2 sounds like me. Emotionally retarded (bingo) - haha.

from all my dating experience I have to agree that passion dies out. If one of these guys loves you for who you truly are.

Also if guy 3 is pretty easily forgettable then I doubt that relationship would last. Maybe you could build off something, but I am picky about who I actually fall for. I want there to be that instant connection. The person you always love talking to and definitely notice when they are not “there.”

I suppose I am leaning towards guy 2, and if that guy is willing to change who he is for you than you must be pretty special to him. Not a lot of guys go out of there way like that, and being a former hedonistic guy, I know from experience.

libbylivesformusi #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Guy #2 is changing, but not for me. He just said I inspired him to try to live his life

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RaspberryUnicorn42 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

That’s amazing! *heart*

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

oh I guess I just took trying in life as some sort selfless thing. Well than that’s cool that you make him want to try harder I guess. A muse for life (sure?)

I don’t know. What does your heart tell you to do?

libbylivesformusi #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

But I want romance NOW! I dont want to have to wait for him to grow up and start wanting it… He also doesnt want to get married, he thinks its stupid and I do want to.

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korwinn 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

what do you mean wait to grow up? is he just trying to get his life together so he can be in a relationship or something

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libbylivesformusi #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

lol. Trust me. Guy # 2 is very clear about the fact that right now his main concern in life is gaming and he could care less if he ever saw another human again

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korwinn 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

hahaha he’s one of those guys. Yea I’ve been there, lol. It’s a very dark place to be in. I hate video games with a passion. Such a waste of life when there is so much to do.

well him sitting around playing games definitely isn’t going to get him anywhere in life.

So what’s you’re deal though? You just want romance and a relationship and these 3 guys are all you have so far. Are you more into the idea of being with somebody than the quality of that person?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (11 hours, 29 minutes after post)

I guess my story is, my past shows that I either fall instantly or I dont at all, ever. #1 I fell HARD and instantly. #2 I fell for right away, but it has gotten stronger over time. #3 well, I have yet to fall…. It just doesnt happen to often. I find someone that I could potentially date maybe 1 time every 6 months. And its frustrating cause sometimes they dont even like me. SO

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RaspberryUnicorn42 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (12 hours, 52 minutes after post)

libbylivesformusi wrote:
I guess my story is, my past shows that I either fall instantly or I dont at all, ever. #1 I fell HARD and instantly. #2 I fell for right away, but it has gotten stronger over time. #3 well, I have yet to fall…. It just doesnt happen to often. I find someone that I could potentially date maybe 1 time every 6 months. And its frustrating cause sometimes they dont even like me. SO

It’s frustrating, I know. Why don’t you let your heart take you to the person you just can’t stay away from - provided your head isn’t telling you they’ll hurt you.

Why is Guy #1 the most likely to hurt you? Is it because he’s not stable or because you like him the most?

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