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Why can’t life be a fairy tale?

Does anyone else in the back of their mind always think that the one they love will come back to you like they do in the movies, knock on your window unexpectadly and tell you they love you and kiss you or is it just me?

I guess I am a dreamer

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Live_for_Thought offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

wouldn’t that be boring? Part of the fun of life is the failures, the “happily ever after” would get boring.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Actually, I expect people have to do that for themselves because everyone else is mostly waiting. If you want something to change, it’s normally best to make it happen.

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redringedmidnight offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

it can under the right circumstances

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⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (19 minutes after post)

i hope for forever. and i do not plan for the future.
convo with my guy:

g- i love you for ever!
me- o rly…
g-and ever
g-and ever
me- forever and ever is a very long time…
g- …..
g- and ever.

how sweet

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (20 minutes after post)

As the Buddha said, “What you think you become”. Keep thinking fairy tale endings and just watch what happens.

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gunn.sho offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (25 minutes after post)

DarkSnow wrote:
Actually, I expect people have to do that for themselves because everyone else is mostly waiting. If you want something to change, it’s normally best to make it happen.

Well I am currently playing the waiting game as I have tried to make it happen with a girl who i hurt before. I have done many things to show her that I care about her and love her. I only can wait and keep trying to prove my love as she means more to me than anything in the world. Now I just need to wait for my fairy tale ending, because I know the girl loves me but is unsure if she can believe in me again but I know in my heart she will come back and i will never stop chasing her. Its just hard waiting and watching these fairy tale endings in movies and wanting it so bad for yourself.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (27 minutes after post)

gunn.sho wrote:
I know the girl loves me but is unsure if she can believe in me again but I know in my heart she will come back and i will never stop chasing her.

Try to avoid behavior typical of a stalker. Not giving up in pursuing her is a very good thing. But if you start to hurt her because of it, you should reconsider.

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gunn.sho offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (30 minutes after post)

DarkSnow wrote:

gunn.sho wrote:
I know the girl loves me but is unsure if she can believe in me again but I know in my heart she will come back and i will never stop chasing her.

Try to avoid behavior typical of a stalker. Not giving up in pursuing her is a very good thing. But if you start to hurt her because of it, you should reconsider.

O I know what you mean haha nothing like that, the chase her was meant as more of a phrase for me to say I will never give up on us.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Okay, good =)

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