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ok so yesterday was hectic, confusing, and crazy.

in the morning i was down, i felt like my best friends where avoiding me, so at lunch i sat with a diffrent group of friends. and some how a romer got started that i was going to kill myslef. i would never do something like that. but by the end of lunch the friend i thought was ignoring me, was in histarics, she was crying… for me. becuse of me. i dont know how to react, im happy she cares, but i dont want to hurt her, and ive never had some one cry for me. its relly messing me up. mabey in a good way, but none the less. and to top it off, my old friend who wouldent even say hi to me in the hallway, that i tormented for a week, apologized to and got no reaction, wants to be friends again, and so do it, so thats good. yester day was crazy

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linuxya offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Life is a lot easier when you can recognize when it’s a lack of sleep, or lack of decent food, or raging hormones that are causing nuttiness. Then you don’t have to analyze it or worry about it. Otherwise being a teenager is just going to be a confusing hell.

Actually maybe that’s a great parallel. Being a teenager is like suffering through a mental illness. When you recognize what causes all those crazy feelings, you don’t have to waste time analyzing or justifying or apologizing. You can even gain some control over them.

Look, for instance, at how you coped with your feeling that your friends were avoiding you. You avoided them. What usually happens is you look as down as you feel and when they are trying to figure out what’s wrong, you take it the wrong way and avoid them. Much of the problems that come with anxiety and depression are all self-fulfilling prophecies. You create what you fear is happening.

What would have happened if you’d gone up to your friends and said, “Hey, I feel down today. How are you guys?”

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green and white hat offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (21 minutes after post)

thats what i did, not in those words persay, but i did, then by lunch i was in better mood, so iwhent to see my other friends

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