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I talk to ONE person about my day, feelings, and really just anything that’s on my mind.

She’s a angel in my eyes, there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for her.
We use to talk with each other when ever we could, telling each other anything and everything. We were in-love with each other. I trust her more then anyone, love her as much as i love my mom (not in a weird way). Always wanting to be with her, around her…blah. Anyways, she got raped. She stopped talking to me, a month later it was my birthday and I got a happy birthday from her. I just kept waiting…no words would get through to her. I don’t blame her at all ya know for not talking to me and stuff. Anyways, I waited for like four months then I got this long message from her telling me she got raped and she can’t ever love me the same way again. In other words she said “I love you, and goodbye”. At that point I felt really depressed. I still talk to her, tell her about my day, if I’m excited about something but she never replies…that can’t be healthy for me but it seems like it’s the only thing that makes me feel a bit better.
She told me “if you love me you will move on with your life”. I hate looking for love lol, and I’m not going to stop thinking of her because just so much reminds me of her. To be honest I don’t want to forget her…I still want to be with her. Every second or third day I will send her a email telling her about my life. I usually end it with “I miss you” or “I wish you would talk to me”. I know she probably hates it…
I’ve gotten a lil more self-confidence since I last posted here. Not sure how or why…still suck at chating up women though lol. I’m so shy, so when I find someone as kind and caring as her I tend to hold on tight. It’s hard for me to trust someone with everything.

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I knew a girl who was raped and she was never the same. You can try to help her but really only therapy will help her if that even works. Has she talked to you lately? She may be able to come out of this.

I knew a girl who was raped and she was never the same. You can try to help her but really only therapy will help her if that even works. Has she talked to you lately? She may be able to come out of this.

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mike_jj 1 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 2 years, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

She’s been going to a suport group thing since the start of it. Around a month ago she just sent me a long message telling me what happened, that she loves me, and goodbye. She said something like message me every now and then and I might get back to you. Blah…I’ve sent her way too many emails in the past six months. She told me she cries when ever she reads one. She won’t let me try to help her…she’s scared like you wouldn’t believe. She’s hiding from the world.
No, she hasn’t talked to me lately. I find myself still “waiting”…

She's been going to a suport group thing since the start of it. Around a month ago she just sent me a long message telling me what happened, that she loves me, and goodbye. She said something like message me every now and then and I might get back to you. Blah...I've sent her way too many emails in the past six months. She told me she cries when ever she reads one. She won't let me try to help her...she's scared like you wouldn't believe. She's hiding from the world. No, she hasn't talked to me lately. I find myself still "waiting"...

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Nmm29 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Horrible things happen in life. I say you should not only tell her your problems but tell us too. I know how u feel in a way. I loved one person and would do anything for her. The difference is I didn’t tell her. Then someone ask me out and I got to know them and like them too, but not as much. I told this person everything and then they left me for another guy. I felt so betrayed and depresed that I actually attempted suicide today. If u love her and your 100% certain she still loves u, find a way to see her or talk to her.

Horrible things happen in life. I say you should not only tell her your problems but tell us too. I know how u feel in a way. I loved one person and would do anything for her. The difference is I didn't tell her. Then someone ask me out and I got to know them and like them too, but not as much. I told this person everything and then they left me for another guy. I felt so betrayed and depresed that I actually attempted suicide today. If u love her and your 100% certain she still loves u, find a way to see her or talk to her.

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mike_jj 1 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 2 years, 7 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Nmm29 wrote:
Horrible things happen in life. I say you should not only tell her your problems but tell us too. I know how u feel in a way. I loved one person and would do anything for her. The difference is I didn’t tell her. Then someone ask me out and I got to know them and like them too, but not as much. I told this person everything and then they left me for another guy. I felt so betrayed and depresed that I actually attempted suicide today. If u love her and your 100% certain she still loves u, find a way to see her or talk to her.

I love her…it’s why I’ve waited so long. I honestly don’t know how she feels about me right now. I know that she did love me a lot, she wanted everything I wanted and more. She doesn’t talk to me anymore…
My ex that I still love and dated for four years left me for a friend, I felt way too depressed…but I don’t want to get into that converstaion because I hate my ex :). I use to always think of her until this girl came into my life and made me forget. She saved me from myself sorta speak.

[quote Nmm29]Horrible things happen in life. I say you should not only tell her your problems but tell us too. I know how u feel in a way. I loved one person and would do anything for her. The difference is I didn't tell her. Then someone ask me out and I got to know them and like them too, but not as much. I told this person everything and then they left me for another guy. I felt so betrayed and depresed that I actually attempted suicide today. If u love her and your 100% certain she still loves u, find a way to see her or talk to her.[/quote] I love her...it's why I've waited so long. I honestly don't know how she feels about me right now. I know that she did love me a lot, she wanted everything I wanted and more. She doesn't talk to me anymore... My ex that I still love and dated for four years left me for a friend, I felt way too depressed...but I don't want to get into that converstaion because I hate my ex :). I use to always think of her until this girl came into my life and made me forget. She saved me from myself sorta speak.

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Nmm29 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (20 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Exact same almost

Exact same almost

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shansaunders2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

My best friend was raped….i had to hold her when she cried because her boyfriend left practically but when she was better he came back…The truth is you cant change the past but the future is always changing. I predicit that this girl is frightened..frightened of everything around her, frightened to trust and most important - frightened of men. I guess the only thing you can do is just ….. tell her how you feel. Tell her that no matter what you’ll be there for eher, that you’ll never hurt her and you’ll always protect her.

My best friend was raped....i had to hold her when she cried because her boyfriend left practically but when she was better he came back...The truth is you cant change the past but the future is always changing. I predicit that this girl is frightened..frightened of everything around her, frightened to trust and most important - frightened of men. I guess the only thing you can do is just ..... tell her how you feel. Tell her that no matter what you'll be there for eher, that you'll never hurt her and you'll always protect her.

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