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My husband and I split a few months ago.
He said he was no longer in love with me and wanted a divorce. I found out he was cheating…again…You see, 2 years ago the same thing happened. A couple of months after that first split he begged me to take him back, knew he loved only me, and would spend the rest of his life showing me just that. Now, about 5 months after this newest incident. He wants me back…again. I had finally gotten to the point where I felt ok. Happy even. And looking forward to the future, as uncertain as it is. Now I am thrown for a loop. And I know I should not take him back. But I guess I just need to hear it, from someone who doesn’t know me and care about me. All my friends, obviously, think I am insane to even think of the possibility of being with him again. Oh, did I mention we have a 10 month old baby? I feel so sad right now. And I know I am making him sad by not telling him I will take him back, and that just makes me feel worse. It is a big mess. I need help. I need advice…please…
I should add that he is very charming, and very convincing. He has a way with words, always has. That is why, even knowing as I do that even if he believes what he is saying, it probably won’t last long, it is hard not to fall for it. I am not a stupid woman, except when it comes to love.
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