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Moved to Texas in 2006 to find an improved quality of life.

I have been going through abuse–possibly him being a manic-depressive person without therapy. During the last numerous months, the emotional high/lows—his actions/behaviors were escalating to the point it got me SCARED. The battles came to a head (Verbal/Violence). In turn–on 1.8.07; The police were called but not enough evidence to file charges. I explained to the officers what I have been going through, they even stated—therapy. {Him being mentally unstable!}

He has depleted both bank accounts, now owing banks. (over $100 in one and $200 in the other). Password is changed on one account-paycheck into it. (He was the type that wanted nothing to do with the bills!) He wouldn’t even make phone calls on his behalf (Privacy Rights–he would not listen!)

It even tore this relationship/marriage to pieces given that he will not take responsibility for himself and his actions/behaviors. The cycles were becoming more rapid and cycling longer to the worse—not dealing with life at all! The good days were very few and far in between!

Now the bad thing is that I am a wife with no car, no job, and seeking a residence within my means, he has chose abandonment instead of getting therapy/leaves me in searching for solutions. I AM SEEKING ANY HELP I can get, I am loosing the house here, the utilites are ready to be shut off and now with no car, I can not get a decent job. I have been looking for a position in the near by area but the better jobs are in Austin. Bus only runs twice a week to our area (out of town/country). I NEED ASSISTANCE on possibly a good running automobile for obtaining work and financial help to move. I can not stay here in this rental home, $1,000.00 month plus utilities. THANK YOU for EVERYTHING!

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iruleintime offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

Dear Denni,First and for most Pray to GOD, Then listen he will guide you through you tought times. Im sorry about your troubles,Finacial responiablities are important,possibly a homeless shelter just get out is near by or a friend might be-able to help you. Get your-self on unemployment.Go to the Dept of Social Services.Maybe a GRANT,you have means to a computer.Find someone to help you rebuild your life thru grants.Put out help with car signs and post them in the nearst town.Dont stop at nothing.When were down we need to take baby steps to rebuild our lives. Maybe a womens battered clinic,can help. Good Luck Sincerly Malinda

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Denni offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Charleston, WV, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

No friends/no family. Unemployment (I did not work). Social Service (Only Food Stamps-Do not qualify for anything else). But Thanks for infor. Take Care, Be Safe.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (12 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Hi Denni, You post Is what I needed, TY, Today is the fist day of my new life I just left my marriage that was abuse, with three kids, I am so clueless on what to do…..Any suggestions, I live in San Antonio …….You sound like a VERY strong person.and much wiser that I hope to hear from you ………Texas …

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