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So..

I’m a 20 years old boy.. and I have a crush on this guy 44 years old, married, likes to flirt with girls and straight. I’ve been hangout with him for several times. I’ve read all the body language articles on the websites and mostly he did those body languages on me but I’m not gonna blindly saying that he shown his cards on the table. Some examples are he rubbed my back, look at me from top to bottom, stares at me like 1 min, sometimes secretly stares at me (i caught him eyes on me), tells me his secret, raised his eyebrows when looking at me, smiled shyly and always making me jealous. On the other day, he ask me to call him on phone to plan on hang out, we did enjoy movie together after that on a couple seat with my 2 other friends but he did nothing to me (eg; cuddle or touch).. just a simple talk. Last time, he told me that if someone like him, he will take it as common thing and I’m thinking that he already knows that I like him. He also don’t wanna look at my eyes when we close to each other but he stares at me when we far in distance and now he keep avoiding me. so the questions are;

how to make him confess whether he likes me or not?
how to make him ask me out again?
how to show him that I really into him and making sure he knows it?
Lastly, how to be his best friend? ( he is much older and I find its kinda hard)

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meano offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

You say he is married- so maybe it is just best to be his friend right now. Wait for him to work anything out with his marriage before you take it any further. You don’t want to be involved in the breakup of a marriage.

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crushedboy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Yeah.. you’re right, I don’t want to break his marriage and he have a son 1 year younger than me and another 3 son (but he seems to cheat his wife going out with another girl) but nvm… is there any way I can make him my friend or my best friend FOREVER? Its really hard for me to make him my friend. I’ve been with him for 4 months now.. and 2 more months I will left the place. I just can’t forget him. I wish he could be my friend and keep in touch everyday. I’ve added him as facebook friend but he rarely online.

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