girl help: I’m afraid to say (hi) to her , encourage me please - Help.com

when you see her just say hi i know it sounds lame but just in the hall just say hi. and if it has to progress just talk about the weather or you schools sports. good luck. if i were her i would feel lucky for someone to just say hi in the halls.

the first word is the hardest to say but when you do every thing else feels natural,just be happy and share your happiness with her, u will be amazed what u could do when in the moment

well like i said the weather although cheesy better then nothing. A sports teem. do you know what classes she taking? what any of her interests are?

I would smile and make eye contact and say “Hey!”
If she’s like “what do you want?” then be like “oh i was just being nice, just wanted to say hi”
you can ask like how are you, how was your day, are you off to class

ask her what her major is, what class is she going to, what class did she have already. i would stick with school because you have that in common.

Just be yourself, what would you normally say to a girl you liked?

Do you know any of the classes she takes? maybe you could just say something about the class. How about being honest, just say i keep seeing you around and i just wanted to come over and say hi and then see where you go from there?

after hi all the topics that you afraid to ask or to say will come out normally
but the most hard thing is the first step
you must make the girl understand that you mean no harm to her and you only want to chat with her to know her to love her

been there,trust me ,the quick approach doesn’t work
i tried it and it failed miserably,and i,ve been living in agony for four years now

i should’ve listened to my friends:use your friends and connections so you slowly over time become a familiar person to her,then you “propose”

i studied medicine and she studied finace,and one day i summoned all my courage and went and ask her if she would give me a chance so we could get to know eachother
she answered “i’m not thinking about it right now”.and each semister i tried again,same answer

she was the first and only one i tried to speak to in my 6 years in the uni

i don’t regret trying,cause if i didn’t give her a chance to say no,she won’t have had a chance to say yes

long story short: go get her and face it like a man ,and if anything trust me on this:talking after hi is easier than you think and there is NO way to plan it

and be a gentlman:if she says no then (since you won’t forget) try to find someone else

if you need anything else talk to me………………BE A MAN AND GO DO IT!!!

Just Go for it, the best part is you’ll know right away if she’s interested if you just go straight up to her and say hi, she’ll probably say hi back and you to will get to talking and fall in love and live happily ever after.

Or not.

Look the truth is you have bno gaurantees but you also have absolutley nothing top lose, so go talk to her dont think about it dont plan it next time you see her, just say hi.

Ahem* Excuse me, ladies & gentlemen. You’ve got it all wrong.
Bits & pieces of each reply are considerable, but bits are small & nobody wants pieces.
Women- or-{College girls, that are aspiring women} all want the same thing.
A man.
A man who can take her by storm. [& NOT in the 70’s Fabio novel sense]
Someone who is sweet with the approach, but strong about it.
!! Do something about your femme fatale before somebody else does. Because chances are, you’re not the only one that desires her. [which is a big aspect of a Woman’s appeal in the first place.]
I would suggest eating a handful of pretzels, & having ONE drink to relax yourself before you go up to her. Ditch class if you have to. It will make you feel risky.
**You’re seemingly not a drinker, but I urge you to do it anyway. Stay away from the whiskey’s & burbons.**
Then look in the mirror & tell yourself that ‘You ARE THE Man’. just once.
Like Tim Roth in Reservoir Dogs.*
Because chances also have it that Women are intrigued by you as well.
As for “The conversation afterward”. Not happening-
Don’t expect too much at the moment because she will more than likely have to be somewhere in a few moments time anyway. Don’t analyze the seconds. Don’t look nervous. Be cool. Be your favorite bad guy
When you walk up to her.. Carpe Diem! Lightly touch her elbow to get her attention & naturally ask her if she’s participating in one of the events that is popular with the demographic in your area. ~Something that you both are equally familiar with.~
`Even if you’re not going` ask her if she wants to ‘go WITH you’.
& ace it like you’ve almost been bailed out on by one of your buddies.
“Hey. I want you to go to ____ with me. It should be fun, what do you say :)”
*don’t look too needy, don’t hang on her every word. Concentrate on her hair, but in a way that you seem as your looking off in the distance to wait for a yes.*
After she agrees, which she more than definitely will. Have a pen ready. Grab her hand. Write your number. DO NOT wait for her to break out her mobile phone!! Like I said, take charge. You have a fighting chance. & then tell HER to text YOU later on that night to make solid plans. Leave it at that.
*act like you’re almost in a cool guy rush too.
**Like Dallas ‘Dally’ Winston in the Outsiders novel**
Also. Texts bring all.
The #number# rules of Ladies:
1. Don’t get hers, give yours. If she’s into you she’ll text you. If she doesn’t text you, move on.
2. We communicate deeper via text message. It’s more intimate, but still mysterious.
She & you alike will be more at ease with this method. Most of the mobile nation say things they wouldn’t likely say in text rather than face to face. So be charming & be yourself. -this will determine whether or not she’s interested.
3. Have fun.
I hope this helps.
xoxo

pretty good advice allisfulloflove
although…….not realy geographicly appropriate, in the middle east (where our friend lives - i suppose-) girls are spoiled brat queens, and being that aggresive will at least get you kicked in the junk (not to talk about the yelling scene)

i’d recommend no drinking(although that’s up to him),and NO TOUCHING

as i said before: taking it slow with the common friend approach is probably better suited for our guy

wish u all luck,and may your conquest be fruitful ;)

I hadn’t noticed. Very good call, DNA*
I speak out of my books late at night sometimes.
Cares & bears**