After a couple of weeks of some serious, and intense, thinking I have come to a conclusion that I have no conclusion with my problem.
So, I thought I’d look for some outside help and here I am! As with any story, my story begins with a girl. It was senior year of high school, and my best friend started dating her. I would often hang out with them, and for some reason it kind of seemed like the girl my best friend was dating had a thing for me, however knowing that it was my best friend’s girl I did nothing. Although, I found her extremely attractive in many ways. But, she was definitely not my type of girl, because she seemed really stuck up, and kind of shallow. Eventually they broke up, and out of no where she and I started hanging out and talking every night, many nights we would talk for 2 to 3 hours!
Well, I realized I was completely wrong about her, she was not stuck up and was definitely not shallow. We started dating and I took her to the prom. We always had fun, and we developed a laid back, broken-in, relationship. The only time I did not have fun with her was when we went to parties, I would notice her flirting with other guys often, and I would get jealous, and I normally don’t get jealous. Then summer came and we were still together, but for some reason I wanted to make a point that I didn’t like it when she flirted with other guys at parties, so at one of the parties I made it clear that it wasn’t working out and we broke up. I was pissed off, and I wish that I hadn’t done that.
We didn’t speak for about 6 months, and since then I have found another girlfriend, but I always seem to think about that time, with my ex-girlfriend when we went rollerblading and I fell on my ***! Or that other time with her, when I ate a one dollar bill! Or when I was too nervous to kiss her, so I complimented her socks on how soft they looked. Or the time she kicked my *** at the driving range! There were so many good memories with her, but I really do like my new girlfriend, however my ex recently text messeged me and wanted to know how I was doing. So, I texted her back, and we’ve kinda been texting eachother a lot lately, and all I’ve been thinking about is HER!!! I don’t know what to do….if there is anyone out there with any good advice I would be so thankful to hear it.
THANKS!
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