computer help: I’m actually doing this for my mother, since she is not computer savvy. - Help.com

It’s very funny that you wrote that post. I am not responding to you to help you but I am responding because I am in the exact same boat as you pretty much. My father died in 2000 and I myself moved back with my mother and much younger brother. I am in the midst of attempting to now move out as well and my own mother experiences the problem your does as well. I can wish you the best of luck and will avidly pray for you and hopefully you can do the same for me. I know what it feels like to be in your shoes and in a funny way, yet unfortunate, it comforts me to know that someone else in the world experiences what I do each and every day. May the best of luck be brought to you… keep faith even though hard at times.

First of all helpisfinallyhere aka catherine/Dear mom. I appreciate the reply however I don’t believe you have any room to judge someone’s intentions. I only repsonded to someone elses post to let them know that someone else in the world feels their concern and worry. That’s exactly what it is… a worry. It’s the people that DON’T care for their parents you should be directing your advice to. Not those confronting them. If there existed more people in the world that have concern about their issues in life, things would not go ignored. Nobody in regards to this post ever stated they are “throwing away” their mother. My goodness, I’m sure that is the last thing on anybodys mind. And second of all, you have absolutely no right to “challenge” someone on their concerns. You are not all-mighty and if you have criticism or “advice” to give to someone with concerns, you never, ever, assume and judge or even put words in someones mouth which is EXACTLY what you did if you read the posts you responded to and then read yours again. I’m sorry but you decided to pull someones heart out. For someone who is involved in an organization for helping and assisting others, (which more of these programs need to be adapted), you did exactly the opposite. Please spend your time doing what you say you do and not contradicting yourself or challenging someone to a duel. There are far too many individuals in this world sufferring for you to spend your time criticizing and judging. Spend your time wisely and help those in need in an effective way. You are a good samaritan with a good heart that wants to help people….then you should do just that.

Good Day.

I haven’t any time to reason with the unreasonable. One other thing, I too have had a lot of thank you’s and yours too is the only negative. Well we all speak from experience and each of us for the reason of our own true opinions of good nature. Life carries many thresh-holds and many ways of overcoming them. Some are learned by experince and some are learned by experiencing mistakes. Too many people battle each and every day with their issues and people must come to understand that help and advice comes in many shapes, forms and sizes and what I wanted to accomplish here was a way of all whom respond to this tag or share some of the pain related to this tag, to take bits and pieces of the different shapes and sizes of advice. I only responded to you because this is a place to open peoples eyes to see new light which in turn opens peoples hearts. That is the best gift someone can receive aside from faith and hope. You should in turn not look towards battling others out but reaching to others. My friend, there is quite a difference. I hope you see that and I’m sure you do but it doesn’t show your true nature and care when you respond in these types of ways. Lets not make life a war, it’s already a battleground.

I hope you can understand what I mean and please keep help.com for what it is. HELP–exactly not a war zone.

Last but not least my dear Catherine, my best wishes to you, your mother and your brother .

Good things will come to you if you do not attack others. Remember I as well as millions in this world suffer. I am troubled to hear your misfortunes and I mean that from the heart and in no means sarcastically. However, one thing I want to bring light to you, never compare yourself or your misfortunes with others for you haven’t any idea what troubles others experience some more or less traumatic in each persons eyes. Be thankful for what you do have and never instigate, compare or downgrade others which is what you did above. I forgive you for that and wish you the best. Remember though I responded to the 1st post on this page trying to give someone hope. Please refrain from attacking me on this website. I as well as many others come here to maybe lend a helping hand. We are not in grade school. We are in a place called “life” where we must live each and every day to the best we can. Please honor what I say and take out of it what you can and it seems to me you are the one who needs a helping hand. We are always there for you.

Love,

michelle