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hmm im confused :/.

so i was at this party having beers dancing just the usual. and i told this girl i liked her. her reaction was “woah youre drunk” so she gave me her number and said call me tomorrow. and then i told her about my awkwardness on the phone ad she said she was the same and we laughed and joked blah blah
later on that night i asked her to dance (considering she hates it) i was getting ready for a resounding no. but she said yes! so then we dance and night ended with me hugging her and leaving.
the next day cos i wasnt sure if she too was tipsy i texted her to ask her i f i should call. she said theres no point all i would be is an awkward silence. so i sent a joke back saying wasnt that the point of the call
an then the week after we went back to school monday we didnt talk it seemed as if she was angry so i texted her and she said i dont want you to think you cant talk to me cos you can :)
but then her best friend came to me and oh i heard you got *****’s number and she laughed and i was like woah maybe theyve been taking the piss behind my back or something :s
and so now we have the occasional chat at school and we text but once she said she had to go but then came up on fb! i dunno if she likes me or what im confused :/
i think thats it any help will be appreciated :)
oh and im 16 if that helps in anyway

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Jisk offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Tough one! Trust your instinct on this one..
maybe leave it for a while (couple of days of no contact) and then later have a chat to her to see what she wants from you (friendship?).. depending how you fell about her..
Goodluck.

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Abstract?? offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

she likes you. dont eff it up. I always did.

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2 years, 7 months ago (15 minutes after post)

hmm yeah but my gut sucks lmao i cant tell i mean if i walk into the canteen and past her table all her friends turn and snap their heads back and i mean im always the one to start the conversation but she always carries it on which is good but i dunno shes never come up to me and spoken to me :/
is she playing hard to get??

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (33 minutes after post)

honesty is always the best policy…bee yourself, don’ let others dictate your way of thinking

Lynn

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