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Sounds to me as if you need to patient. This boy has yet to completely get over his ex-girlfriend. Continue being his friend, but don’t expect any commitment from him. At least not until he can stop caring about his ex and whether she dates anyone.

You didn’t ask about this, but a word of wisdom: why did those two break up? Sometimes the reasons for a break-up can be a warning sign about whether new relationships will be enjoyable or not. For example, trust is key in successful relationships. Did the boy’s break-up experience make him less likely to trust girls (because he was cheated on)? If that’s the case, your relationship will not be all sweetness and light because eventually, his lack of trust might be directed at you.

wow sucks to be you sounds like his feelings for you arent the same i say time to move on and i aggree with cajun as well but im sorry cm man you now the drill if hes going to be like that than hes hung up on this ex and especially if he thinks he can go and get it on the side then gets mad when his ex does the same thats not right this is one mind game you dont want to get caught up in sweetheart this guy is not worth your time and effort and if you can see that then you need to reavaluate your life