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Ugh boys.

There such idiots sometimes!

This year I spit up with my boyfriend after 8 months, (not long, but still)
I was asked out by someone who I rejected. And now he has started to date my closest friend.
Was asked out today by some kid I don’t even know, who has asked out 3 other girls this month.. DESPERATE! (II said no.. duh)

Why are boys so determined to have a girl on there arm? Are you incapable of being single?

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

Nah, it’s cause we need someone to cook and clean. And something pretty to look at is always good too :P

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sarahdanielle1 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

^^^ really?? guys can be such pigs.

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linuxya offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

So… you are blaming your own feelings of anxiety about relationships on “boys” being “incapable of being single”?

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black rose (male) offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

well it is natural instincts that tell us to get a mate to breed with not like we have a choice

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Dating a boy is far from going steady. What’s wrong with spending time with someone? There’s more girls than there are boys. So competition is tough for them.

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bibliofiend offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

there are plenty of girls who act the same way around the boys. It’s the age and social pressure more than a boy/girl thing.

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2 years, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

LOL. guys aint he problem. Girls are exactly the same :)
Try to not blame it on a species and just blame it on that one guy, he does not speak for all guys. As you are not the sole example for all girls. :P

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♥musicislife♥ offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Yeah, true….some guys are pigs and some girls are well…pigs too. It just depends on who it is, i have met some PIGS of guys, alot i might add, but not all are like tht….just some..

ALOT…but still lol

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FadingQuickly offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (32 minutes after post)

They are = Their, not there.. fyi

And its not just guys, girls can be equally ridiculous. We all have times in our lives where we are so convinced that we need someone in order to feel good about ourselves that we don’t act terribly… smart.

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windmills offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Such a hasty generalization about boys. You cannot base your conclusion of all boys on a couple of observations. Do yourself a favor and make some more observations before drawing a conclusion about an entire population based on a sample that is nowhere near large enough.

Troll™ offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (17 hours, 53 minutes after post)

I agree with mills.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 6 months ago (22 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Just read through the comments, and I agree with some of them.
I was in a awful mood when I wrote this.

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FadingQuickly offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (23 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Just read through the comments, and I agree with some of them.
I was in a awful mood when I wrote this.

That is very big of you to say. It’s not always easy for us to admit when we over react or say things we kind of wish we hadn’t. Props to you!

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windmills offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 day after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Just read through the comments, and I agree with some of them.
I was in a awful mood when I wrote this.

It’s quite understandable. I suspected it was written under the influence of a passing episode of negative emotion. Thanks for clearing the air.

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