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so i went to a party last nite.

everybody hates me cuz of this one girl who completely ruined me already. i feel like im in highschool again. like seriously can people just grow up. just because u have the body of a seventh grade doesnt mean u have to act like one. we’re in college now get over urself!

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

i know it doesnt matter i was simply venting. you didnt have to reply

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Call Me Chris offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Same thing when I was in vocational school. I dropped OUT of high-school because I hated all of the cliques and whatnot. I got my diploma anyways, but it just wasn’t the same as graduating with my class. It’s really sad seeing people my age with immature minds. They refuse to change, and it’s not your fault. If you’re important enough to be hated on, thank them for their time.

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

it’s not the cliques i hate its just she’s ruining my chances of getting into a sorority cuz of everything shes been saying about me. idk wat to do.
middsetter,
I’m just frustrated and venting :-/ sry

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Call Me Chris offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

What’s so great about being in a sorority? Don’t take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you’re putting yourself on their level. Why would you want to be accepted by people who believe the rumors? All they’ll do is judge you.

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

wats wrong with sororities? I’m sorry maybe I’m not good at making friends with girls and as much as i love my guy friends i need friends that are girls too here at school

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Call Me Chris wrote:
What’s so great about being in a sorority? Don’t take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you’re putting yourself on their level. Why would you want to be accepted by people who believe the rumors? All they’ll do is judge you.

sry last one wasnt to u lol
i just need a way to be friends with girls. and im sure not all of them are like that its just shes ruined my rep with all of them and i know i shouldnt care but i really do cuz i dont understand why she hates me soo much.

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Dainad offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Maybe she’s just jealous of your good looks ;)

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (23 minutes after post)

haha i highly doubt it but thanks

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Call Me Chris offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

The music of love wrote:
sry last one wasnt to u lol
i just need a way to be friends with girls. and im sure not all of them are like that its just shes ruined my rep with all of them and i know i shouldnt care but i really do cuz i dont understand why she hates me soo much.

Well, what I’m saying is that any true friend won’t believe what other people say about you. So if they accept you, that’s cool. If not, you shouldn’t be bothered too much.

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I know but thats all any sorority is going to hear about me so i dont even have a fair chance of getting them to know me so that they do accept me. they have a million girls to sort through and who wants a girl who already has drama with another sorority?

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Melita, 00, MT | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

she is just a jealos *****, show her that ur better than her.

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Call Me Chris offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

maggie_01 wrote:
she is just a jealos *****, show her that ur better than her.

There you go.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 month after post)

Hi girl, what im going to write to you has nothing to do with what you said here, but i accidentaly came up your page and i was stunned by you being you, i really think your very pretty. I don’t know why i’m saying this, but i think you would mean the world to somebody out there. i don’t have an account here, but i do have one on tumblr, im only telling you for if you would want to know who i am, i’m nothing special, just a high school girl.. its iwillcatchyou.tumblr.com.
i’m praying for you tonight. Wish you have a very happy life! Lots of love!

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2 years ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

people suck …. its just life …… just ignore it …. the more you pay attention to it the more shell do it

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