love life help: I like my brothers best friend.

tess

I like my brothers best friend.

He is so nice to me, but its giving me inxed feelings. All my friends say he was starting at me, but i wont beleive them til he says it. BUt he likes this perfect girl…i know this cuz he slept over my house. Hes like so perfect….ugh What do i do??? :[

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cjmbroc 4 #
Reigate, N7, GB | 2 years, 10 months ago (0 minutes after post)

Starting at you? What does that mean?

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Columbus, IN, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I think she means staring at her…but I don’t know…^^;

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2 years, 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Never fall for a sibling’s friend. It never really works out.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

You need to consider your brothers feelings since this is his friend. Consider the possibility a relationship between you and this guy doesn’t work out, then that makes it awkward for your brother. There are alot of other guys out there so why look at your brother’s friends for a boyfriend.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (12 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Tess tess , get the oher girl a bf somehow , tell her someone likes her and hell find out / move on then make your move :)

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

omg i have the same problem.. help

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

im in the same exact situation…except its much more serious. the guy is constantly flirting with me and like caressing my face…its tough, he doesnt make it easy for me to get over him.

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GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

I had the exact same problem. Honestly the best thing to do is to get your brother drunk and ask him lol. thats how i found out…..Kidding!!Don’t sweat it, it sounds like he likes you so i say go for it!! And sometimes these kind of relationships work it depends how secure the guy you like is and if he can handle the fact that your brother will be constantly checking up on you. The downside is if you do break-up your brother and him won’t be the best of friends any more. As for this “perfect” girl how do you know that this guy you like sees her as perfect? You could be his idea of perfect! Good Luck!!

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Andover, NJ, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

OMG I have the exact same problem with my older brother’s friend. I’m not sure what to do about it, but I think I’m gonna act like I normally do (maybe flirt a bit more ;) and if he makes a move then ‘yay!’ and if he doesn’t….well, we’ll just all stay friends like we are now and I’ll find another guy. Problem is, most of the good guys I know are my brother’s friends!! LOL hope that isnt the case for you! Good luck!

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