Love help: I know people been through worst break ups then I have but I - Help.com

If a guy is telling you that you won’t ever find better than him, then he is really really worried about himself and himself only. And if your girlfriend is second guessing you or not trusting you, then you really only found another dud. A relationship is about much more than lovey dovey feelings, its about communication, trust, honesty, loyalty, and the lot. What you need to keep in mind, is that there is someone special waiting for you out there, someone that will treat you right, the way you deserve to be treated.

try to stay positive and talk to her. you should be able to talk to your significant other about anything and work on believing all the good she tell you. it’s going to take time but thing will get better for you. at least you know dep down it’s not the truth. good for you. i wasn’t even that far ahead when my bf started telling me good things.. best wishes and love always.. :)

My girlfriend does not make me feel like she dosen’t trust me its how I was treated with my ex boyfriend that makes me think she will turn and treat me like he did me, but i am tryin to stay positive and remind me that she is not like him, She treats me perfect but i think it won’t last. And thanks I am tryin to remaine positive.

well good for you but make sure you tell her how you feel. it really strengthens the relationship. it really really does.

Thanks i’ll do that when she gets home today

If it’s true that we create our own reality, you need to eliminate the negative thinking that started with your ex. He’s gone. Be thankful for that. He was right about one thing. Nobody will ever treat you the way he did. Believe that part of what he said to you and toss the rest of his gibberish in the garbage.

Don’t insult your girlfriend or short change your relationship by playing the comparison game. She is showing you how she feels about you when she treats you so perfectly. It will last if you let it. :D

Learn to be kind to yourself in all ways, always -

thanks I will work on getting rid of the negative thinking

Jasmyn wrote:
Thanks i’ll do that when she gets home today

good for you :)

kitten_ciao wrote:
If it’s true that we create our own reality, you need to eliminate the negative thinking that started with your ex. He’s gone. Be thankful for that. He was right about one thing. Nobody will ever treat you the way he did. Believe that part of what he said to you and toss the rest of his gibberish in the garbage.

Don’t insult your girlfriend or short change your relationship by playing the comparison game. She is showing you how she feels about you when she treats you so perfectly. It will last if you let it. :D

Learn to be kind to yourself in all ways, always -

just to elaborate on what kitten said - nobody should ever treat you as BADLY as he treated you. he is not the be all and end all

best wishes to you :)