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Queen Elizatron 4000
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My life is a mess-I admit it and I’m having a hard time helping people.

I can’t help because I’m so angry and tired. All my friends and family are mad at me and I’ve lost everyone. I spend all day on my computer because I’m alone but I’m alone because I pushed everyone away from me.

Today is my best friend’s birthday and I haven’t called her and I don’t want to. She just emailed me hinting around. I keep hearing comments about how I am. People say I’m hard to talk to. I would agree, they talk to my IM, email.

Another issue is stress, I’m at my worse right now because my family hate me because I want my grandma to live. They want to unplug her and I don’t. She is talking and telling them “no” but they are pushing the issue. It’s stressing me out.

There is more stress but I won’t go into detail.

If you have noticed a change in me over this past month, please please I’m very sorry.
I promise, in time I’ll be at my best. I’m just not myself right now.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 changed the tags on this post: they were "friends, computer, Life (magazine), Family, birthday, e-mail, Family" 2 years, 10 months ago.

Kadoo wants a Coker offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

God, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. If there’s anything that we as a community of I as an individual can say or do to help you, just let us/me know.

Just please, PLEASE, don’t post asking for money.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I don’t need money.

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2BHelpful offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Southwick, MA, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I think your advice has been quite good. Your one of my favorites. Please try to cheer up. =)

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Bandeirante, 29, BR | 2 years, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Queen…I just “met” u today and I can honestly say, that without you knowing it….I was having a tough day….no details now….and after just chatting with you about nothing (LOL) you lifted my spirits and made my day! You dont have to be a superstar to help people!…On your worst day you were my minister! Thank you.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I’m just having a bad month. I wish you all could have seen me before, I was a star.

sigh….

I’m just so worried about everything.

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Kadoo wants a Coker offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (19 minutes after post)

It was a joke, Elizabeth, I was trying to lighten you up…sorry.

But starbuddy is right, if this is you doing BADLY, then I’m putting you up for a Nobel Peace Prize as soon as you’re better.

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candp offline Verified User (3 years) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 114 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Queen, we are so sorry for all of your pain. We don’t expect a superstar. We are all perfectly happy with you. We did notice the change and are happy you finally shared. It helps us understand. If there are any parts that you would like to work on we are always here for you, just let us know. You are wise enough to know that you are the only one that holds the key to your personal happiness. That is all you need is that wisdom and focus.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (32 minutes after post)

As always, wish I had a majic potion that would make those bad days go away, but as you know, we don’t have that kind of medicine, yet.

When I’m down about something, I try to think about the good things in my life. There are always others who are in worse shape. On this board, we have a poster that has a terminal illness. Just read their profile.

Started to say what my old coach would say, but everyone is probably tired of that line.

Keep your head up, better things are ahead!

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Thank you:)

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