Love help: I feel so alone and am unsure if there is even a point to having friends :( Every friend I made I lost contact with from moving twice.

sum

I feel so alone and am unsure if there is even a point to having friends :( Every friend I made I lost contact with from moving twice.

Some of my friends turned out not to be friends really. When i try and reconnect with them on facebook i realized i barely had any good close friends at all and the ones i did find rarely responded to me and said little over a sentence for over years and years of being away from them so i just gave up on that. The closest friends i have now are online ones and they eventually get busy with their lives and again i feel like im worthless and no one cares about me or just if they do im excluded from their lives and dont get talked to much. I love them so it hurts me greatly. I know its possible to meet some and even live near some of them but I dont know if i can even save my own self. I would make friends elsewhere also but I hate where I live so I feel no desire to make friends I know I will lose. Im so lonely.

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sum changed the tags on this post: they were "friends, Lives, Close, live, Feel, sentence, Facebook, contact, desire, moving" 2 years, 5 months ago.

Help me with: Someone I really care about lost a friend of thiers and I dont know how to comfort her and im worried people might try to

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2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

Can you move to someplace you like, near at least someone you know and care about, and then settle down there?

sum 24 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I dont know how or where :/ I mostly want to be near the girl im in love with but thats a whole other post ….i just dont know how to pull off having people want to meet me and be around me…

Help me with: Someone I really care about lost a friend of thiers and I dont know how to comfort her and im worried people might try to

shamm 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (13 hours, 37 minutes after post)

hey, somtimes it’s difficult to keep in contact with ppl…but it’s still not that bothersome to send a txt or an email to see how a person is doing…don’t worry, i’m sure you’ll find some good ppl to stay frends with..just be positive and smile a lot! :D that usually helps :p

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2 years, 5 months ago (4 days, 19 hours after post)

Yeah, I agree. A positive attitude is great, and everyone looks better when they smile.

Sorry you’re feeling this way, Sum. I am a very lonely person, but I have been able to make a few friends through craigslist and having roommates.

sum 24 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (6 days after post)

shamm wrote:
hey, somtimes it’s difficult to keep in contact with ppl…but it’s still not that bothersome to send a txt or an email to see how a person is doing…don’t worry, i’m sure you’ll find some good ppl to stay frends with..just be positive and smile a lot! :D that usually helps :p

I think i already said i used facebook and never got responces much…. i get lost in the hundreds of friends they all have -_-

Anonymous wrote:
Yeah, I agree. A positive attitude is great, and everyone looks better when they smile.

Sorry you’re feeling this way, Sum. I am a very lonely person, but I have been able to make a few friends through craigslist and having roommates.

I wouldnt trust craiglist for that O__o hmmmm but i seem to get along with girls much better than guys. i even made a post on it once how i dont trust guys as much.

Help me with: Someone I really care about lost a friend of thiers and I dont know how to comfort her and im worried people might try to

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