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go see a councilor about it. could be something to do with something that happened to you in the past.
if you are just shaking it sounds like you are angry…
and being afraid of fighting sounds more or less normal to me.
some people like it some dont.
if you dont feel anything when you fight with someone it just means you have done it so many times that you just stopped caring which is worst that everything else (from personal experience).
keep feeling scared because that means that you are not used to it is what i am trying to say.
no shame into not fighting just dont overdo it and remember to stand for what you think you should.
Confrontation terrifies me as well, but I usually will start crying. You may have had a bad experience with it or never learned how to handle it. If you want to overcome it it’s best to either talk to someone about it or try exposing yourself to it more often. I’m not saying go and do awful things but just try scenarios with friends or if you sense an argument try and work on your breathing and remember they’re only words.
Fight/flight reflex is engaged. There’s a lot of adrenaline and other goodies being pumped through the system. Doesn’t necessarily mean you’re ’scared’, though you might be. ..Willy.
anxiety, i agree. i used to be like that a lot! especially on the phone. i can put up with confrontation face to face, but just online and on the phone -i guess i just get nervous because i can’t see their face … i don’t, it’s weird
also my bf gets the shakes when he’s mad, doesn’t feel well or his nerves are shot or maybe lack of alcohol too..?
I agree with Helping Hands. Also, remember to make sure you keep everything in perspective. If you are arguing with someone online or over the phone, they can’t get to you, you are continually choosing to keep talking to them. So only reply if you feel like it. See what you disagree with them on, see why they are wrong, and then understand. And as you understand more, there is less to be afraid of. The same thing can happen to me, although it doesn’t happen when I’m arguing with people, it happens in a very specific, rare, odd case. Not worth mentioning, but yeah, I know the feeling too.
why do i start shaking or shivring when someone fight with me
I get all shaky when i get in the smallest of confrontations. I learned now its best to relax thats the type of fighter you are. The calmer yu are despite how crazy yo body is feeling is best. Inorder to direct you adreline to the best direction. Dont run your mouth, dont get excited if yu must just ball yo fist say as til as possible to get to the point. Are yall goibg do this or what. You shakes probably yo best weapon if yu use it right.
I have the same thing it make my whole body feel strange to as well as shake it happens to me when some one started me or somert and it not that I am scared because I ant afried of being bet up or nothing like that but when some one comes right up to me and start me it like I am reluctant to hit him or hesitate but then after it past it make me angry er cos I didn’t do anything It may be because when ever it happen it cos I don’t have a proper reason like if he had hit my sister I would be different I would hit him then but when it not its just a ideate I reluctant to fight does any one have some advise because when I am old I don’t it to happen cos of my kids seeing it does any one have so advise
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