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Basically I’m feeling really left out!

!! :(

Me, Anna, sofiya and Rachel were all like really really close in year 7! Me and Rachel were best friends and Anna and sofiya were best friends and all four of us were like the bestest friends ever!!! But then, sofiya was on holiday for like a week but she got stranded there for a month and I felt sorry for Anna because her bff was gone! And that’s when it happened…

I thought us 3 would all stick together but Anna and Rachel kept ditching me!!! I would be with them and then just turn around and they would be gone!!! I spent soo many lunchtimes all by myself coz I don’t really have any other friends and they would just go off together all the time!!! They sed sorry every time but they did it every day so I started to just hang around by myself :(

Then they started to do everything together! They went to the movies, had sleepovers, went out for lunch… Ect…ect and I was never invited once! They would go on about it in front of me and not even notice that I was being left out! I realised that they weren’t really treating me right so I broke best friends with Rachel! She acted like she cared at first but she would always choose Anna over me!

Now sofiya is back and at first it went back to the good old days but now all three of them r ditching me! They always wisper and tell secrets in front of me that they all no but I don’t! And they will Invite eachother out in front of me without inviting me! I am so mad at them and I feel really hurt :’(

I tell them not to wait for me anymore after school because I always feel the odd one out around them but I really like them and we have a laugh wen we r together but I hav never even been imside Rachel or Annas houses!

Please help
What should I do??
:’(

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pinkpug3 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i thought u said that u and rachel were best friends at first, so y havnt u been in her house?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Coz she Neva invited me even tho she has been to sleepovers at my house all the time :/
She wasn’t really a great best friend

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

u should tell all of them that you feel left out

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

I hav told them b4 but they just say ‘’it’s not our fault, the whole world doesn’t revolv around you, stop being jelaous'’ :/

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

try inviting them to ur house instead

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 years, 2 months after post)

Well after reading this, I relate 100%. Every single thing in this story is happening to me right now. You know they said sorry but still do it and I’ve been pushed out of they way by one of my friends so they could walk next to my other one and they cut me off when I try to talk to them or they ignore me and ,are plans and take pics and out videos all out and I feel like crying but I’m still hurting a lot right now…..but I tried making other friends and I have nicer friends who don’t do that and the other friends put me down…I can’t let go of especially one of one friends because she was with me for literally my whole life and I would die for her…but it seems like she wouldn’t do the same for me. Only for the Other girl. I really hate my life for it. I CANNOT EVEN WAK IN THE HALLS WITH MY FRIEND, SHE IGNORES ME BECAUSE HER ATTENTION IS ON SOMEONE ELSE. I HATE IT SO MUCH …

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